Once upon a time, a beautiful girl got tired of her marriage life and wanted to murder her spouse.

One morning she ran to her mother and say to her " mother, I am tired of my husband I can no longer support his nonsense. I want to kill him but I am afraid Law of the land will hold me responsible, can you please help me mother?"

The mother answered:

- Yes my daughter I can help you, but, there is a little task attached.

The daughter asked "what task? I am willing and ready to assume any task attached in order to get him out"

OK, said the mother,

1..You will have to make peace with him, so that no one will suspect you when he is dead.

2.. You will have to beautify yourself in order to look young and attractive to him.

3.. You have to take good care of him and be very nice and appreciative to him.

4.. You have to be patient, loving and less jealous, have more listening ears, be more respectful and obedient.

5. Spend your money on him and don’t get angry even when he refuses to give you money for whatever.

6. Don’t raise your voice against him but encourage Peace and love so that you will never be suspected when he must have died.

Can you do all of that?

Asked the mother.

Yes i can. She replied.

OK, said the mother.

Take this powder and pour a bit in his every day meal, it will slowly kill him.

After 30 days the lady came back to her mother and said.

Mother, I have no intention of killing my husband again. As of now I have grown to love him because he has completely changed, he is now a very sweet husband than I ever imagined.

What can i do to stop the poison from killing him?

Please help me mother.

She pleaded in a sorrowful tone.

The mother answered;

Do not worry my daughter. What I gave you the other day was just Tumeric Powder. It will never kill him.

In reality, you were the poison that was slowly killing your husband with tension and dispassion.

It was when you started loving, honouring and cherishing him that you saw him change to a nice and sweet husband.

Men are not really wicked, but our way of relating with them determines their responses and feelings towards us.

Women if you can only show respect, dedication, love, care and commitment to your husband he will 100% be there for you.

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He رحمه الله تعالى responded:

It is not upon her to wear that which is tight because this is not permissible. Rather, it is upon her to wear (loose fitting clothing) that will make it possible for her to roll her sleeves when making wudhu.

Since the elbows are considered a part of the arm, it is *obligatory* to wash them.

Therefore, it is obligatory upon her to not wear clothing that is tight.

📘 الشيخ ابن باز《نور على الدرب

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Sheikh Bakr Abu Zaid رحمه الله تعالى

● Covering of her body completely which includes covering her clothing and jewellery;

● Material should be thick, not thin and transparent;

● Jilbaab should be worn (starting) from the top of her head and not from her shoulders. 

(This way the outline of shoulders and the like are not emphasized).

● The outer garment should not be in itself beautified with beautifications of different kinds (e.g. sequins, fancy buttons, laces etc.)

● The outer garment should cover her entire body including her feet.

📗 كتاب《حراسة الفضيلة

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As salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wabarakatuh ukhti @seekingiman

as promised, from our conversation, here are some examples: What makes a good-quality fabric and what makes a good-quality garment?

Just ask the owner of the shop for help and for the darkest, (non transparent and not clingy material that they have. They know their products and will be able to save you some time. Otherwise:

Hold the material up to the light, and stretch it, so that 1. you will know if its transparent and 2. stretching it out gives you an idea if it will cling or not to your body (and it must not cling)

Let your hand guide you, the best way to judge a fabric is to touch it. Does it feel thin? Or does it feel thick? (you need it to be thick)

A piece of material can be heavy and still transparent or lightweight and not transparent. (regardless the weight it must not be transparent) 

Important note, from the example in the video, all the marital’s are from the same fabric and they’re all lightweight but are different in colour and when I held them to the light some of them became transparent so the colour is important also.

The BEST colour and safest is always JET BLACK.  

Sheikh Muqbil ( رحمه الله‎ ) , mentioned, that there is no authentic proofs to show a particular colour that a woman can wear.

الله اعلم  The jilbaab has conditions, that should be met, from them, its not to be beautified, in any means، no matter what colour it is, it should not be beautified.

The Hijab (Jilbaab) starts from the HEAD and NOT the shoulders, and if we say it starts from the shoulders we contradict the verse,  “and the women they should draw their cloaks over their whole body..” (Surah ahzab 59)

When buying a material always keep this phrase in mind, ‘Clothed yet naked.’ taken from the hadith, ‘There would be in the latest generations of my ’Ummah [Islamic nation] women who wear clothes but still look naked’..)

Imam Nawawi ( رحمه الله‎ )  Explained this hadith here are few points taken from his explanation,

They will be semi-naked. Part of their body will be covered whilst other parts remain exposed.

These women will be in thin and transparent clothing that their complexion and colour of their skin will be visible, thus although clothed they are in actual fact naked! (Commentary of Imam Nawawi, Of Sahih Muslim 5547 - 7123)

Hishām Ibn ‘Urwah explained,  “that once Al-Munthir Ibn Az- Zubair came from Iraq and sent a gift for Asma’ bint Abi Bakr a thin Quhiyyah cloth- a cloth made of fabrics manufactured in Quhastan on the outskirts of Khurasan. Asma had been blind by then; she touched it with her hands and then said: ‘Faugh! [out of resentment] Return back his cloth to him’. Al-Munthir felt heartbroken and said: ‘O mother! It is not transparent. ’she replied : ‘If it is not, it still displays the shape of the body due to its thinness’  (Narrated by Ibn sa‘d in At-Tabaqāt Al-Kubra (vol. 8 / p. 184)