#jichael

Michael: *reaches for the butter*

Rafael: *reaches for the butter*

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CORDUEVA;

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credit to clacefall.

You know, the thing is, one of my biggest issues with fandom culture in general is how realistic moments and realistic scenes between characters are seen as negative, it’s just incredibly immature. Jane’s first time with Michael is the most realistic portrayal of a woman losing her virginity to a man that I’ve seen on television.

I had a post about this:

[…] I sincerely appreciate that Jane’s first time isn’t this magical, earth-shattering experience despite it being with her husband, a man she clearly truly loves, because it’s realistic; this is perhaps the most realistic episode about the first time that I’ve seen on television particularly on teen dramas because the first time is awkward and you can have complicated feelings about losing your virginity even if it’s with someone you really love and it does take a while to know what you like and I was just very pleased with how well it was done. 

So the fact that Jane faked an orgasm for Michael is realistic. She wanted the first time to be that epic, earth-shattering moment with her husband, there had been so much build-up to having sex for the first time that she faked it, she didn’t want it to be disappointing and Michael not wanting her to tell people that she faked an orgasm is a natural and realistic response, I don’t know anyone who wouldn’t feel embarrassed about their partner faking an orgasm, I mean there is an entire scene in When Harry Met Sally about women faking orgasms and men not knowing the difference

and when she’s told that it’s her husband and she should be honest, she is and they work at it and then they have really great sex