#jadeswisdom

okay so first, i’d like to say that respecting boundaries are 100% involved over here and we do not harass each other. anyway, this post is just a thought bubble.

what is same s/o dni?

“same significant other, do not interact” is simply the terminology of saying that if you share a s/o with said person, don’t interact with them.

as a shifter that has been in the game since they were 12 years old, i will definitely say that this did not exist 6 years ago. this is still a foreign topic to me considering the fact that i have always been comfortable sharing s/os with others. i remember posting something on my tiktok story about it and people getting upset & i wasn’t necessarily trying to disrespect anyone.

anyway, the saying that i don’t love my s/o enough is true. i don’t love them at all, actually.

i can love the way they look, the way they dress, how they talk, etc. that’s all infatuation, not love. i don’t love them as a person because i simply do not know them. you can’t love someone you don’t know.

also, having had shifted, i still don’t love them here. jeff buckly for instance is so many beautiful things in my desired realities. he’s perfect. a beautiful boyfriend/husband/whatever he is in multiple drs. i don’t love him here like i do in my drs because i never knew him.

i have so many s/os i’ve shifted for in total for a longgg time and i simply do not feel it here. when someone has the same s/o as me i don’t care. i’ll let them interact because i simply do not care.

i separate realities from this one. you can like someone all you want here, but they are not yours unless you are actively with them here. (pretty much all of us aren’t).

please stop harassing people for having the same s/o as you. respectfully, this is concerning and I would say please get off of social media to clear your minds.

— with love,

yes, I always preach obsess if you want, but if you’re in a state of mind where you’re juggling way too much and receiving way too little, take a break. you deserve peace and sometimes clearing your mind for a few days will give you that. I’m the queen of breaks. I take them all the time. I have severe anxiety, sometimes I just want to sit with myself and breathe. meditation isn’t just good for shifting, it’s good for you.

I see that shifters prioritize shifting over themselves a lot and I want to acknowledge how unhealthy that is. shifting is about you, so when you stop making yourself the center, things fall apart. please take care of yourself — in any reality for that matter. your body and mind are sacred temples that deserve love.

I know taking a break is so boring, but I would rather take one than have weight on my chest. you’re worth so much in every reality. that’s why it’s okay to not shift to places you don’t feel fulfill you either. you deserve peace.

take my advice, leave my advice. that’s your choice. but just know i’m looking out for all of you just as much as I look out for myself. you matter, so act like it.

I’ve just started learning the concept of shifting and im inlove — ok straight to the point. Does shifting clash with religion? I’ve been thinking about it. . . Is shifting allowed for any religion?

Thank uu, i hope this is not a topic ur against—

Hi! Thank you so much, I really appreciate you! :)

As far as shifting being close friends with Buddhism, there’s nothing it “clashes” with. Reality shifting is no kind of sin in any book. I’m not the most religious (anymore), but I do know that God doesn’t shift you or anything either.

I believe that shifting comes from within so there’s nothing you’re necessarily doing “wrong.” You can kind of even rewrite religions / the concepts of it. That’s how I see it at least.

In conclusion, no, don’t worry about religion.

Well, I view it as this:

1. There are infinite versions of yourself. Just like you’re permashifting to another version of yourself, a better version of yourself lives amongst the universe.

2. You’re unaware of this reality once you shift. Therefore being said, I wouldn’t necessarily say it doesn’t matter what’s going on here, but simultaneously it doesn’t. Think of that version of yourself in this reality who is better.

Overall:

Don’t worry about a reality you’re not in because it is not currently your concern. However, if you felt like shifting “back” here, choose here but an alternate reality where your life is better.

ALSO, to answer your question: