#it's confusing

I'm getting more and more into the batman universe and like the bat family

Sometimes our traumas emerge as kinks. Then sometimes our kinks emerge as trauma. I'm feeling ambivalent because some of the things that make me horny are messed up irl, and then sometimes i've sexualized someone on here who probably needs love and affection and therapy and not me leering at them. Its a conundrum, but its real and my heart hurts sometimes reading some things some of you have posted and i feel guilty for participating in something that might be unhealthy for you. And unhealthy for me too? I learned in my early bdsm/kink training how important emotional safety is and checking in and being kind and supportive to yourself and your partner. I will practice it here, and I hope you do too. Please be kind to yourself today, you are loved from afar.

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