Although the band was stalled, it did nothing to brake the speed at which John and Paulâs relationship was developing. The two boys spent part of every day together, talking about music. Often, after school or on the errant day off, John would invite Paul back to his house, in Woolton, where they would hole up in the tiny front bedroom, smoking and playing records. Out from under Mimiâs watchful eye, they would sit cross-legged on the bed, running down bits of lyrics theyâd memorized in an attempt to piece together an entire song, working a new chord into their slight repertoire. âWe spent hours just listening to the stars we admired,â John recalled. âWeâd sit round and look all intent and intense and then, when the record had ended, we [sic] try and reproduce the same sort of sounds for ourselves.â Paulâs pet expression for itââjust bashing awayââseems appropriate; they found ways to play songs using what little they knew about chord structure or technique. Other days theyâd meet outside the art college and take the no. 86 bus together all the way out to Forthlin Road. During the week, while Jim was away selling cotton, they had the run of the house. Alone in the sun-filled living roomâJohn on the chintz-covered sofa, and Paul curled into an easy chair at its sideâthey poured out all their big dreams: the kind of band they envisioned putting together, the musical possibilities that lay in store, the great possibilities if they worked. John talked, in fact, about playing serious gigs, even making records. [âŚ] Â
John and Paul had remarkably similar tastes; they liked it fast, hard, and loose. [âŚ]
A rhythm developed between John and Paul that got stronger and tighter. Mostly it was intuitive, unspoken. They understood each other. There were unknowns but no mysteries. âThey were on the same indefinite path,â says Eric Griffiths, who sensed that their bonding signaled his undoing. âOnce they got together, things became seriousâand fast. The band was supposed to be a laugh; now they devoted all their attention to it and in a more committed way than any of us really intended.â Other Quarry Men also recognized their special rapport. In Colin Hantonâs estimation: âThe band quickly became John and Paul. It was always John and Paul, Paul and John. Even when someone didnât turn up to rehearse, John and Paul would be at it, harmonizing or arranging material, practicing, either at Auntie Mimiâs or at Paulâs house.â
No doubt about it, they were tuned to the same groove. But aside from a musical passion and amiability, they filled enormous gaps in each otherâs lives. Where John was impatient and careless, Paul was a perfectionistâor, at least, appeared to beâin his methodical approach to music and the way he dealt with the world. Where John was moody and aloof, Paul was blithe and outgoing, gregarious, and irrepressibly cheerful. Where John was straightforward if brutally frank, Paul practiced diplomacy to manipulate a situation. Where John had attitude, Paulâs artistic nature was a work in progress. Where Johnâs upbringing was comfortably middle-class (according to musician Howie Casey, âthe only claim he had to being a working-class hero was on sheet musicâ), Paul was truly blue-collar. Where John was struggling to become a musician, Paul seemed born to it.
And John gave Paul someone to look up to. Their age difference and the fact that John was in art collegeâa man of the world!âmade John âa particularly attractive characterâ in Paulâs eyes. There was a feral force in his manner, a sense of âfuck it allâ that emanated great strength. He had a style of arrogance that dazed people and started things in motion. And he scorned any sign of fear. Johnâs response to any tentativeness was a sneer, a sneer with humbling consequences.
John occasionally felt the need to reinforce his dominance, but he never required that Paul cede his individuality. He gave the younger boy plenty of room in which to leave his imprint. The Quarry Men would try a new song, and John would immediately seek Paulâs opinion. Heâd allow Paul to change keys to suit his register, propose certain variations, reconfigure arrangements.