#intergender

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* I know that the new Tumblr Communities feature is popular with lots of younger users, especially queer and trans youth groups. IF YOU SEE ANYONE POSTING SHIT LIKE "youth lib means pedo lib," "cant have the T in LGBT without pedophilia," OR ANY ISFF APOLOGETICS, REMEMBER SRB: SCREENSHOT for evidence, REPORT to tumblr and mods, BLOCK for your own safety and peace of mind.

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Alrernatively, if youre already in a pretty chill community that suddenly pivots to having age verification, especially if combined with the apologetics, SRB!!

* IF ISFF AND/OR HER LACKEYS AND APOLOGISTS START FOLLOWING YOU, ESPECIALLY BEFORE YOUVE REMOVED AGE INFO FROM YOUR BLOG, BLOCK AND REPORT!

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DO NOT try to debate these people

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* DO NOT @ these people if you make evidence posts. Only include the username and be sure to include the pfp in one of your screenshots. Using their @ is like sending up a flare to let them and their followers come harass you.

Quarterly reminder that pedophiles are not an oppressed class, minors cannot consent to sex, if you post something on the internet it no longer is a thought and thus it is not a thoughtcrime, and just because someone on the internet tries to use really big words to say pedophilia is ok doesnt make it so!

A flag for intersex individuals who retrotransition: they transition to try and undo the effects of forcible medical interventions such as IGM and forced HRT, to have sex traits that are an approximation of what they'd naturally would have had.

Also known as XTX and ITI (intersex-to-intersex). These flags and terms are intersex-exclusive.

Flag is inspired by these transition flags that @bloomshroomz made. Symbolism is: - yellow and circle: born intersex - black stripe: being mistransitioned (IGM, forced HRT, etc) - violet: the binary gender that they were mistransitioned to - white: intentional/voluntary transition - purple: transitioning to a gender that is influenced by being intersex, and hence under the intergender umbrella - yellow trans symbol for added transness

Versions for retrotrans individuals who were mistransitioned to girl/feminine (XtFtX or FtX), and to boy/masculine (XtMtX or MtX), respectively:

And sensory friendlier versions:

Requested by: me 😁 I am retrotrans

Copyright: public domain

"man" is my abbreviation of my gender to make it comprehensible to perisex peopke (including perisex trans people). my primary gender is and always will be intergender.

if I go around calling myself intergender to perisex people I have to give a little definition for them. I have to educate them. it's tiring. even the best meaning people don't know what that word means.

[pt: Introduction]

‼️if you have headcanons or oc's you want to share, send em over to @intersexocs!!! ‼️

frequently asked questions [link]

Here [link] is a list of definitions for terms/acronyms that will be used throughout this blog!

Hello, I'd like to preface that this is not the original moderator for @this-is-intersexism!! We are Charlie/Bear from @interhusband (we are plural and switch between I/we pronouns. Please use he/hir pronouns for us). This is a replacement blog since the original tii was terminated due to the rampant Intersexism on this website.

We are also the mods for @this-is-fatnoirism @frutiger-mogai @trans-butch-culture-is and @black-butch-culture-is

Here, we wish to share more instances of Intersexism and the experiences of our community. We will not be silenced, no matter how hard Tumblr tries to. Allies are welcome to submit experiences, but intersex voices will be prioritized.

No form of bigotry will be tolerated. That includes transandromisia, transmisogyny, exorsexism, ableism, saneism, racism, xenophobia, or antisemitism.

BOUNDARIES:

• if you have questions about oc’s or writing advice, please keep to talking about intersexist stories/characters or “is my character/how I’m writing them intersexist?” Type of submissions. I no longer showcase oc’s or receive ask about writing advice beyond that!!

• nothing too explicit/sexual, do not overly describe your external genitals or your sexual activity (please direct such questions to @/comprehensive-sex-ed).

• (because this apparently has to be said) don't use my inbox as a confessional, please [link]. I don't want to hear about the intersexist things you have done as a perisex person or continue to do unless it is to ask for advice or resources to learn and do better.

• if you are having bad, dark, or harmful thoughts about yourself or others, please seek out organizations that I have listed below, talk to trusted people in your life, or invest in a journal. Genuinely. There is only so much I can do in advising you through dark times of internalized intersexism, especially when you aren't aware of it and aren't asking for my help. I am NOT a professional, I am not equipped to handle such situations.

• please keep full blown drama to a minimum. If there is a discourse that involves intersexuality, that is okay, but keep unrelated discourses or dramas involving individuals that are unrelated to me out of my inbox. This blog is not for that!

• if you have any variation of the “I’m bodily perisex, but I have an intersex headmate, what should I do?” My answer will be the same so please stop asking. Innosex [link], parintersex [link] and altersex [link] are right there.

If you have questions about intersexuality or are wondering if you may be intersex, I definitely recommend reading through these resources:

ARE YOU INTERSEX? A zine by versgem [link]

Wikipedia list for intersex variations [link]

TIGERRS intersex resources [link]

Self-Advocacy toolkit for communicating with doctors about intersexuality by interACT [link]

Bodies In Doubt: An American History Of Intersex [link]

Tips For Writing An Intersex Character With Grace - Hans Lindahl [link]

This[link] video (created by this[link] creator, go check her out!) is very informative on CAIS!

Here are a list of resources if you are in a crisis or need immediate support [you are in a crisis or need immediate support]:

Trans lifeline: 877-565-8860

Blackline: 1 (800) 604-5841

SAGE hotline: 877-360-5428

Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386

LGBT national youth talkline: 800-246-7743

Northwest Network: 617-742-4911 or (toll free) 800-832-1901

NYC anti-violence project: 212-714-1141

More resources can be found here[link]

Emoji sign offs are welcome! Here are the taken emoji's:

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#REX & XE ❤️🖤

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(if you would like to be removed, we will do so) here are some blogs that have inspired us and hopefully will help you to learn more about the community and maybe your own body! @yourfaveisintersex @urfavisintersex @our-queer-experience @thisis-intermisogyny @this-is-antitransfemininity @the-intersex-experience @intersex-joy @thisisfutchmisia @our-queer-experience @interfaerie @this-is-valid @this-is-indigemisia @this-isaphobia

I'm curious how many intersex people who participate in @gendercensus write-in "intersex" in the section where you get to write in any gender descriptors not already provided for you.

For those unfamiliar, it's a short annual survey of people whose gender in any way does not neatly fit into the binary.

You get a question where you can check off common terms like transgender and nonbinary, and then 10 empty slots you can use to write in terms that were not provided. Writing in "intersex" in that part is the only means in the survey for somebody to indicate they are intersex, as the survey does not directly ask intersex status.

This year's Gender Census is still open if you haven't filled it in yet!

Trinsgender / Trintergender

[PT: Trinsgender also known as Trintergender. /End PT.]

This is a label exclusive to intersex people who identify with a gender identity beyond what was socially expected or imposed onto oneself.

You may consider this an ASABless alternative to ultergender, as any intersex person, regardless of ASAB, may modify our genders in any direction that fits our experiences best.