Men like to let me know how "hot, sexy, cute" they think I am, and I can appreciate that as a compliment, BUT I've always preferred the word 'BEAUTIFUL'. Beauty radiates from the soul. Beauty cannot be defined only by your looks, but by the content of your soul. Beauty is your charachter; the way you feel about yourself and others. When a man is wrapped up in my looks, I like to say that my looks are simply the icing on the cake, the cherry on the sundae. Don't let the pretty face fool you! The best parts of me are my loving heart, my infectious joy, my genious curiosity, and my capacity to care. The best compliment a man can give me is to tell me I'm beautiful - and mean it. Not just for my looks, but for his experience in encountering my soul, which surpasses physical constructs. LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE When you seek to #manifest a mate, be certain to first choose their inner qualities FIRST. If you manifest based on outer qualities, you will certainly receive a beautiful nightmare - everytime - until you learn to choose wisely. Of course, some types may never learn, but that is their karmic lesson, not yours. When you choose based upon shallow, outer qualities, you get chosen for materialistic, shallow reasons. Ladies, if you ask for a rich man - he wants a perfect "Barbie doll". You will start to feel his unrealistic expectations of perfection in your appearance and shame him for being so shallow, or feel trapped in a ruse. However, you asked for it. He will also feel your expectation to remain rich and feel confined by your shallowness. Choose your mate based upon who you'd want to grow old with, so your love can last. Beauty fades, money fades. True love never dies. Set yourself up for success. Manifest from the inside out and TRUST that the U-N-I-verse has your back and knows what you want (physically) in a mate. #manifest #drsears #Relationships #relationshipgoals #men #women #KissandTell #love #mates #materialism #shallow #depth #innerworth #selflove #knowyourself #loveyourself #live #love couples (at Mission Viejo, California)