May 11, 2025
my ribsssssss they're crying!!!!!
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my ribsssssss they're crying!!!!!
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Ugh, when I can't wear two binders to attempt to flatten my chest it makes me so dysphoric, I literally don't know what to do I can't stand looking at myself with only one binder on but obvs its unsafe wearing two : /
[ID: a drawing that says “how to use ace bandages as a trans person.” It has a drawing of a trans character binding their chest with ace bandages with a giant X next to them. There is a drawing of another trans person next to them with who is dressed as a mummy with a large check next to them. /end ID]
Please don’t bind your chest, instead: become a mummy.
OKAY so I need some advice. Desperately. I’m AFAB and have been questioning my gender for as long as I can remember. I’ve been using an UBER tight sports bra as a makeshift binder for a couple years, and lately it’s started digging into my sides and leaving deep cuts. I need a proper binder, but how do I ask my mom for one? As far as she knows I’m a cis lesbian, and I’m not the person to share every qualm I have with my identity. Any tips on how to make it less awkward of a conversation?
Ok so first things first. You need to take that sports bra and throw it in the garbage. That thing is leaving compression cuts??? it’s nasty, it’s probably bloodstained, it’s way too small if it’s doing that to you, there’s no way to donate that, do not wear it again, this is urgent. That’s so, so bad for your ribs, and you should apologize to them.
Some LGBTQ+ community centers do binder exchanges, which means theoretically you can get one for cheap or free without your mom’s intervention. Otherwise, you’re probably going to need to tell your mom the bare minimum about your struggles, even just about your body. Hopefully, she’ll be understanding, but I know that’s not the case for everyone, so if you think it would be easier, maybe frame it more as a fashion statement or just general discomfort with your chest as opposed to bringing up your gender identity.
Seriously though throw that sports bra out, you shouldn’t be wearing something so small.
-Mod Gillian
Do you think it's absolutely necessary to follow the binding rules absolutely perfectly otherwise you are doomed to not get top surgery and to have awful issues later on? Someone made me feel incredibly bad because I simply can't follow the rules exactly. I sometimes have to where it for longer than 8 hours and a few times I've had to wear it for days without taking it off because I was at a church camp (which is already super bad for me) but i also had to room with 4 girls. (1/2)
I'm doing a lot better about it than I used to. I have no rib pain, I have no increased back pain, and the only thing that happens is on occasion the tissue regarding my chest gets sore. I'm not doomed am I? I've listened to my body as best as I can. I still can breathe normally and everything. (2/2)
//alright while it is not a hundred percent guaranteed that not following those guidelines for binding automatically means no top surgery in the future not following them does up the chances of not being able to get top surgery. Even when properly binding there can be side effects that make top surgery unavailable. And besides top surgery there is the increased possibility of various health issues. Please try to bind as safely as possible as often as possible.
-mod Logan
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It’s a trans thing
Quick heads up (and I will mention this in my tags and the notes in the fic) but there is gonna be some discussion of improper binding in Loneliness Ends, I'll elaborate more in the notes on where and when it happens, but I figured I 'd mention it here too real quick!
i think I THINK ive been wearing my binder way too long today lol
whooooooops im not going home for a while yet tho so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ what do