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I'm adding 2 new muses, i'll do proper bios for them when i get back from holiday(14th od september) but for now we can plot^^ i will also be replying to everyone slowly, i know i've been away for a long time but i hope you can forgive me and give my 2 new babies some attentionđâ¤ď¸Â
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 - male rookie/trainee(not general verse though), very angsty muse, a lot of dark threads to come, victim of sexual abuseÂ
Name : Antione Kim (Anti) DoB : 27.01.1996 Height : 175 Zodiac : Aquarius Trainee --> Rookie Faceclaim : Loudi / Edward Wen (14U)Â
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 - male, ex idol, hospitalised in the past, currently working as a choreagrapher, composing music in his free time, also really angsty, has a few mental disordersÂ
Name : Bongchol Ko DoB : 17.09.1990 Height : 185 Zodiac : Virgo Choreographer, Composer Faceclaim : Roh Jihoon
Atheismâs shocking woman problem: Whatâs behind the misogyny of Richard Dawkins and Sam Harris?
At first blush, it would seem that an atheist movement would be exactly the sort of thing that would attract many women. After all, much of the oppression of womenâfrom forced veiling to restricting abortion rightsâis a direct result of religion. Unsurprisingly, then, feminism has a long tradition of outspoken atheists and religious skeptics within its ranks.Suffragist Elizabeth Cady Stanton preferred ârational ideas based on scientific factsâ to âreligious superstition.â  Major feminist philosopher Simone de Beauvoir argued that belief in God exists in part to ârepress any impulse toward revolt in the downtrodden female.â Modern feminist writer Katha Pollitt received the âEmperor Has No Clothesâ award from the Freedom From Religion Foundation in 2001, where she said that religion is dangerous because âit connects with very terrible social energies that have lain in civilization for a very long time.â
But despite the natural and cozy fit of atheism and feminism, the much-ballyhooed âNew Atheismâ that was supposed to be a more aggressive, political form of atheism has instead been surprisingly male-dominated. The reason has, in recent years, become quite apparent: Many of the most prominent leaders of the New Atheism are quick to express deeply sexist ideas. Despite their supposed love of science and rationality, many of them are nearly as quick as their religious counterparts to abandon reason in order to justify regressive views about women.
Sam Harris, a prominent atheist author who has previously  been criticized for his knee-jerk Islamophobic tendencies, recently came under fire when he added women to the category of people he makes thoughtless generalizations about. Washington Post religion reporter Michelle Boorstein interviewed Harris, and during the interview she asked him why most atheists are male. âThereâs something about that critical posture that is to some degree instrinsically male and more attractive to guys than to women.â He added, âThe atheist variable just has thisâ it doesnât obviously have this nurturing, coherence-building extra estrogen vibe that you would want by default if you wanted to attract as many women as men.â
There was an immediate uproar among female atheists, and understandably so, as Harris didnât even consider that it could be atheism that has a problem, instead immediately assuming that the problem is women themselves. His reaction to the criticism, which was immediate and probably a bit overwhelming was not, however, a demonstration of the tough âcritical postureâ he characterized as âinstrinsically male.â  Harris replied to his criticswith a hyper-defensive and tediously long blog post titled, âIâm Not The Sexist Pig Youâre Looking For.â His strategy for disproving accusations of sexism was to engage in more sexist declarations, in the time-honored bigot strategy of saying itâs not bigotry if itâs true.
First, he warmed up with the âwomen are humorlessâ gambit, declaring his âestrogen vibeâ comment a joke that simply flew over female heads. He then moved on to produce an awesome cornucopia of sexist blather: Womenâs value is their service to men. (âI was raised by a single mother. I have two daughters. Most of my editors have been women, and my first, last, and best editor is always my wife.â) Womenâs inherent desire to serve rather than lead explains their second-class status. (âFor instance, only 5 percent of Fortune 500 companies are run by womenâŚHow much is due to the disproportionate (and heroic) sacrifices women make in their 20s or 30s to have families?â) Putting women on a pedestal is better than treating them like equals. (âI tend to respect women more than men.â) Women who donât defer to men are bitchy. (âHowever, I donât think Iâll ever forget the mixture of contempt and pity my words elicited from this young woman.â)
Needless to say, for women who reject religion because it so frequently portrays women as mentally inferior helpmeets who exist to serve menâs needs, Sam Harris is not offering any hope that atheism will give them a meaningful alternative.
It would be nice to dismiss Harris as an outlier, but sadly, pompous sexism followed up by defensive posturing is the order of the day for the dominant male leadership of the loosely organized world of atheism. In a lengthy investigative piece for Buzzfeed, Mark Oppenheimer demonstrated that the problem extends beyond sexist condescension. Instead, the bros-before-hos attitude of much of atheist leadership is quite likely serving to protect actual sexual predators.
While Oppenheimer focused on a number of prominent sexists in atheism, such as Penn Jillette and now-deceased Christopher Hitchens (who also was a fan of the âwomen are humorlessâ trope), he focused most of piece on accusations against prominent skeptic writer Michael Shermer. Oppenheimer quoted two named women accusing Shermer of sexually harassing them. A third named women had a more alarming accusation: That Shermer had taken her to his room while she was too drunk to consent to sex and had sex with her anyway.
The reaction to Oppenheimerâs story was swift and did much to support the claim that the atheist community protects sexual predators, much like the Catholic Church did during the priest pedophilia scandal. Richard Dawkins, possibly the most famous atheist in the world, immediately went on a tear on Twitter, blaming victims for their own rapes if they were drinking. âOfficer, itâs not my fault I was drunk driving. You see, somebody got me drunk,â he tweeted, comparing being forced to have sex with the choice to drive drunk.
When called out on it,  he doubled down by suggesting that rape victims are the real predators, out to get men put in jail: âIf you want to be in a position to testify & jail a man, donât get drunk.â
For someone who is a supposed rationalist, Dawkins refused to even acknowledge the basic difference between making the choice to break the law and being the victim of a crime. But only for rape, of course. Itâs unlikely Dawkins would think itâs your fault if you are standing there minding your own business, while drunk, and someone hits you for no reason. But if the assault occurs with a penis instead of a fist, in Dawkinsâ mind, suddenly the victim is the person at fault.
Again, this situation is no outlier. Dawkins has spent the past few years using Twitter as a platform to rail against feminists for daring to speak up about sexual harassment and abuse. He not only rushed to Shermerâs defense regarding allegations of sexual assault, but rushed to Harrisâ defense regarding allegations of sexism, even though Harrisâ sexism is so off the charts it becomes downright comical. Dawkins used to cling to the idea that he was an outspoken critic against the oppression of women, but lately heâs more occupied with praising professional anti-feminist Christina Hoff Sommers.
There are many excellent feminist speakers and writers in the atheist movement, men and women who bring the same critical eye to sexism that they apply to religion. Most of them, however, are mostly known only within atheist circles. People like Dawkins, Shermer and Harris are the public face of atheism. And that public face is one that is defensively and irrationally sexist. Itâs not only turning women away from atheism, itâs discrediting the idea that atheists are actually people who argue from a position of rationality. How can they be, when they cling to the ancient, irrational tradition of treating women like they arenât quite as human as men?
Sadly, this contempt for women coming from the top trickles into the ranks, allowing everyday misogynists who happen not to believe in God feel justified in their hatred of women anyway. Subsequently, thereâs a thriving online community of people who live to harass not just women, but female atheists in particular, trying to drum any women out of the movement who want to be included as equals instead of as support staff for the male stars. Feminists like Rebecca Watson and Greta Christina, who upset the image of atheism as a âguy thing,â are subject to a relentless drumbeat of abuse through social media by people who prefer an atheism thatâs a little more like fundamentalist Christianity, where women know their place.
Itâs become so bad that artist Amy Roth created an installation where the walls and furniture in an 8 x10 room are completely covered by the abuse women receive online, currently on display at the Center for Inquiry in Los Angeles. (Full disclosure: I shared much of the online abuse I get with her.)
If atheists believed in the afterlife, they would have to assume that Simone de Beauvoir and Elizabeth Cady Stanton are looking down upon us in horror, wondering how the good name of atheism has been so poisoned by rampant sexism. But since they are no longer around to judge us, itâs up to living atheists to strive to be more than a bunch of people who simply donât believe in God, but stand up to irrationality in all its forms, including sexism. (x)
FRIENDLY REMINDER THAT MAKING FUN OF/SHAMING PEOPLE FOR BEING SHY/QUIET/A PRIVATE PERSON DOENS'T MAKE THEM WANT TO TALK TO YOU
EVEN IF YOU ARE MAD AT THEM
EVEN IF YOU WANT TO """""""ENCOURAGE THEM""""" TO BE SELF CONFIDENT OR WHATEVER BULLSHIT
THEY WILL BE FUCKING CONFIDENT WHEN THEY WILL FEEL COMFORTABLE
AND
HERE'S A NEWS FOR YOU
BEING A SHITHEAD WITH THEM DOESNT MAKE A PERSON COMFORTABLE
THEY CAN BE SAD ABOUT BEING SHY OR FEELING LONELY
CHANGES ARE FUCKING HARD OKAY?
AND IT TAKES TIME
AND SUPPORT
AND BEING AN ASSHOLE DOESNT MAKE YOU A SUPPORTIVE FRIEND
IF YOU ARE AN ASSHOLE TO ME I WONT EVEN CONSIDER YOU A FRIEND
THANKS
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give candice 16 dollars for throwing away her peiceÂ
go to chinatown and buy a new one
turn in essay on wednsday
figure out what you are going to present tomorrow
find a party to go to on friday because its been too long since you've been drunkÂ
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fix the ticketmaster situation so you can see atmosphere again in augustÂ
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