"When something is unspeakable, we both hide it, but also give it power. Harmful power, in specific. The things we cannot speak and cannot name shape the way that we view the world."

Ironically, youtube is almost certainly going to throttle this video, that has a REALLY important message.

Please watch it, please drop any kind of comment, even an emoji, please tell the youtube algorithm to push this video because it's important, and because it supports a queer creator.

If you aren't in a space to handle these topics, PLEASE go to 36:15 to hear a positive, uplifting message you absolutely need. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

It's her sign off, so there's nothing after it that might trigger you.

Do you need someone to talk to? Or do you know someone who is struggling?

i just wanted to say somethings as a lh44 girlie myself (from SA)

i’ve seen since the arrest of diddy that ppl many on some of the f1 subreddits are pull out some pics of diddy and lewis and to be honest i wouldn’t be surprised if some of these f1 media sites start writing articles about lewis linking to diddy as there’s pics of them together from like 2008 (all from public events like fashion shows or award shows) to the met gala in 2018 where lh posted something good about diddy on twitter

i just wanted to know what you think about this.

as i think this diddy case is extremely serious and i understand that everyone is having their tinfoil hats on and is saying everyo celeb that as partied or taken a pic with diddy was on it with him - but it think we should becareful cause we don’t know yet which of these celebs were in on it doing bad things, which were victims or which were not apart of it at all

sorry for the long post , thank you

TW: THE SEAN ‘DIDDY’ COMBS INVESTIGATION TOPIC.

I typically don’t like answering such asks on my page because this my only space of escapism away from everything going on. I really like keeping my page as positive as possible and strictly to just about writing.

However, I want to answer earnestly without bringing more people in my inbox with the same topic because that is a particular conversation, I’ve discussed this on my Twitter and my Instagram but I will share it here as well.

I think it’s very fucking weird that people are using the less than 5 times Lewis has been pictured with that monster at public events as a gotcha moment. They are celebrities - they will take pictures with other celebrities, that’s just all it is.

To the F1 subreddits I don’t engage with them at all because I find them (Reddit in general) to be a breeding ground for negativity, racism and other bigotry. They will always find a reason to bring down Lewis because that’s what they’ve been praying for. Any chance they can get to speak ill of Lewis and bring negative attention to his name, they will do it. As a fan, it’s within your best interest to either not engage or call it out.

Because at the end of the day, formula one is a white dominated sport - any chance to kick the black man out and tarnish his name, they will do it.

The Sad Truth About Disability: Insights from Last Week Tonight with John Oliver

In a recent episode of *Last Week Tonight*, host John Oliver tackled the complex and often heartbreaking realities surrounding disability in modern society. With his signature blend of humor and pointed critique, Oliver shed light on the challenges faced by individuals with disabilities, exposing systemic issues that are often overlooked. This blog aims to explore the key topics discussed in the episode and reflect on the broader implications of disability in our world today.

The Marginalization of Disabled Individuals

One of the central themes of Oliver's episode was the societal marginalization of people with disabilities. While the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) was a significant step forward in ensuring equal rights and access, many barriers still exist. Oliver highlighted how, despite legal protections, individuals with disabilities often face discrimination in various aspects of life, including employment, healthcare, and public spaces.

The episode emphasized that the representation of disabled individuals in media and culture is often lacking or misrepresented. Stereotypes and misconceptions can perpetuate stigma, making it difficult for those with disabilities to gain acceptance and understanding from society. By addressing these issues, Oliver called for a reevaluation of how disability is perceived and discussed in our cultural narrative.

The Inaccessibility of Public Spaces

Oliver pointed out the persistent inaccessibility of public spaces, despite regulations meant to enforce compliance with the ADA. Many buildings, transportation systems, and public facilities remain ill-equipped to accommodate individuals with disabilities. The host humorously but seriously illustrated how seemingly small oversights can accumulate, leading to significant obstacles for those who rely on accessibility features.

The episode showcased real-life examples of individuals who encounter barriers daily, such as inaccessible restrooms, public transportation that is not wheelchair-friendly, and the lack of proper accommodations in workplaces. These issues serve as a reminder that while laws exist, enforcement and practical application often fall short, leading to further marginalization of disabled individuals.

The Burden of Healthcare Inequities

Another crucial topic Oliver addressed was the inequities in healthcare faced by people with disabilities. The episode tackled the often frustrating and complicated relationship individuals with disabilities have with healthcare systems. Many disabled persons encounter difficulties accessing necessary medical care, receiving proper diagnoses, or obtaining adequate support services.

Oliver highlighted the stark reality that healthcare systems frequently prioritize cost over patient needs, which can lead to inadequate care for those with disabilities. This inequity is exacerbated by systemic issues such as lack of insurance coverage or high out-of-pocket costs for necessary treatments. The episode underscored the urgent need for reform in the healthcare system to ensure that individuals with disabilities receive the quality care they deserve.

The Financial Struggles of Disabled Individuals

Moreover, the episode delved into the financial struggles faced by many with disabilities. Oliver revealed how societal barriers and systemic discrimination can limit employment opportunities for disabled individuals. The fear of losing critical benefits often discourages individuals from seeking work, creating a cycle of poverty and dependence.

The episode pointed out that many disabled individuals live below the poverty line, with limited access to resources that could improve their quality of life. Oliver's discussion highlighted the need for comprehensive support systems that empower individuals with disabilities to achieve financial independence and stability.

The Importance of Representation and Advocacy

Throughout the episode, Oliver emphasized the importance of representation and advocacy for individuals with disabilities. He called for a more inclusive approach to policymaking and a push for representation in media to ensure that the voices of disabled individuals are heard and valued.

By uplifting disabled voices and experiences, society can foster greater understanding and empathy. Oliver urged viewers to engage in activism, advocating for policy changes that promote accessibility, equity in healthcare, and the dismantling of societal barriers that hinder disabled individuals from living fulfilling lives.

Conclusion: A Call to Action

John Oliver's recent episode on disability serves as a powerful reminder of the ongoing challenges faced by individuals with disabilities in society. By addressing the marginalization, inaccessibility, healthcare inequities, and financial struggles, the episode shone a light on the sad truth about disability—one that is often overlooked in public discourse.

As advocates for change, it is crucial that we continue to engage in conversations about disability, challenge societal norms, and push for inclusive policies that uplift and support disabled individuals. By doing so, we can work towards a more equitable society where everyone, regardless of their abilities, has the opportunity to thrive and be valued.

In the words of John Oliver, it is time to break down the barriers and ensure that the voices of those with disabilities are not just heard but amplified. Only then can we begin to address the systemic issues that have long persisted and work towards a brighter future for all.

I know this seems a bit random as I haven't post anything in awhile, but I wanted to speak on three specific topics, because they've been bothering me. I want to first say that no one has made any of the following comments directly towards me or my writing, but I still feel these things need to be said.*Disclaimer: I request anyone reading this post to hear me out before leaving a comment or turning away as these topics are serious. The Canonical Ferbnessa is NOT pedophilia: I'm not talking about all Ferbnessa stories hear just the canonical one presented in Act Your Age. I see people saying this is wrong cause it's pedophilia, and as a victim of pedophilia I can confidently say it is NOT. Is it grooming on some level? Depends on how you view their relationship before this episode, but assuming it might be is completely reasonable. But, on a completely factual level their is nothing pedophilic about this relationship. They get together when Ferb is 18 and graduated high school. Whether their age gap personally bothers you or not doesn't change the fact that Ferb, at this point, is a consenting adult and can date whoever he wants. Even if he was 16, in some states he'd still be legally allowed to date Vanessa, just not do anything sexual with her. If you have a loved one who is 16 or 18 who is in a relationship with an adult who knew them as a child, it is completely reasonable to feel uncomfortable and be concerned. You can take your kid to/suggest therapy, relationship counseling, or waiting till after high school/college, but you can NOT make the choice for them.

Thomarie is NOT incest: If you know what 'Thomarie' is then you get where this claim comes from, and it is a completely unreasonable claim. Baseline; Thomas and Marie are NOT blood related, because Phineas and Ferb are NOT blood related. Incest is illegal, because any children coming from those relationships would have basically no chance at life due to close genes. Thomas and Marie don't actually share any genes, so they could have completely viable offspring. And, for those saying; "But, Phineas and Ferb feel like brothers." So what? People feel like siblings to their friends all the time, it doesn't suddenly make them related, or make their children feel related. Secondly, to the statement; "Saying Phineas and Ferb aren't really related ruins the whole message of the show." No it doesn't. The whole message of Phineas and Ferb is right in the final song of 'Candace Against the Universe'; Us Against the Universe, 'I'm not just talkin' blood relation.' It is literally a summary of the shows entire message, which is NOT; 'If you feel related to someone you are related.' The message of the show IS; 'No matter WHAT relationship you have with some one(be it sibling, friend, romantic partner), it is a choice you make. You CHOOSE the people you care about, your blood ties or lack there of, don't/shouldn't do it for you.' And, by that logic. Thomas and Marie's relationship doesn't go against the shows message, it is instead, a PERFECT example of the shows message. It shows that no matter what your ties to someone are whether by blood or by paper, you can feel differently about anyone and everyone, attachment is not a one size fits all.

Short answer: Pcod is the result of hormaonal imbalance.

Patho physiology: if you wanna read. I tried... :-)

Hormones are the chemical messengers of our body. They take a message from one organ to another. Most of the hormones are present in both males and females but in varying amounts. Hormonal imbalance can lead to literally malfunctioning of our metabolism, daily activities as well as general health of our body.

Hypothalamus is the master gland. That is it controls all the other hormone producing organs. Pitutary is level 2. It gets signals from hypothalamus and releases hormones accordingly. Pitutary usually release the controlling hormones (the ones whoch control other organs)

Like thyroid stimulating hormone which redirects thyroid gland to release more thyroid hormone and such.

In pcod( polycystic ovarian syndrome or disease), the ovaries are enlarged, and pituitary malfunction due to repeated signals from ovaries. In females, testosterone converts to estrogen and estrogen to progesterone. In pcos, testosterone remains as such and hence, estrogen level decreases and testosterone increases.

Also in a normal menstrual cycle LH nad FSH ( From pituitary) are usually released in bursts... They are at basl level and shoot up during ovulation (14th day of the cycle)

In pcos they remain elevated throughout the cycle and increase in LH is more than increase in fsh( reverse of normal). These hormones( LH, FSH, ESTROGEN, PROGESTERONE) are responsible for the normal functioning of the female menstrual cycle, the uterine function and many other functions such as bone density in females.

We also see that insulin stimulates increased production of hormones such as testosterone and estrogen. So we see usually a triad of hyperandrogen(increaed testosterone leading to obesity and diabetes), menstrual irregularity( no or scarce menstrual flow) and radio fetaures ( usg examination)

Increased testosterone leads to change in male like features, lipid level, blood sugar level change; decreased eatogen causes acne, and infertility ( due to disorder in levels of lh, fsh, e2, p2)

It is not incurable. The symptoms can be improved a lot with hormonal replacement therapy.

Ps- I would like others to ask if they got any doubts.

Tagging @half-past-late and @saudade-mayari two of my brilliant friends in medical community to add on!

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