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Realness. Older generations lie to damn much. Time does not heal people's wounds. It heals nothing. I didn't expect to be miraculously over the asshole over night...but i did expect to be feeling "bright eyes and bushy tailed" for most of the days following after the breakup. Only because I know the asshole is toxic. So what's there to be sad over right? Any other person wouldn't even give it another thought... so why can't I feel happiness? I mentioned the quote in the beginning because, for a person like me who wants to protect myself and my heart from people like the recent ex. From time to time at random as fuck moments, my brain will force me to think about the ex's of the past. Now at this time in my life I can say I am over them. I believe that "if I can think about someone from the past and not get emotionally pissed off from thinking about how said person betrayed me", then yeah I feel like I've gotten over the person. And "if I can date someone new and not take my insecurities and anger out on them before the person's done anything even shady"......then yeah I feel like I've gotten over the previous person. To me that's common sense. I'm the type of person who can "forgive and let it go" but the whole b.s. quote about how time heals. Naw I'm sure mass majority of use can agree that that right there is a bold faced lie. Most people who come and go out of our life leave such a huge ass scar and a huge bad impression/impact on our hearts and in our lives, that we apply the lesson we've learned into our daily life so we know what to avoid in the future. BUT it haunts us for the rest of our lives. Even if to the normal persons eyes it looks like we have all our shit together and we handle our business just fine and got our head on straight.....our brains act like our worst damn enemy. Anything can trigger an unwelcome random as fuck unwanted thought out of nowhere and remind us of how so and so pissed on us without the courtesy of calling it rain.....so and so stabbed us in the back so hardcore and twisted the knife we are left with keloid scar, that periodically gets sore....our brains will legit shit act like our worst enemy. So that's why I say even though we may be able to move the hell on and do what we gotta do to survive in life, time does not heal anything at all.
