Well as we said before, you have to see where heās coming from. In his own way, Icepants IS trying to help, and the āadviceā he gave is completely genuine given his own perspective about life. Is it helpful? Hardly. Articulate? Definitely not. But it is 100% honest in his eyes, and heās the kind of person who believes harsh truth can prevent future heartbreaks⦠It would actually help a lot if he actually knew anything about whatās heās talking about instead of assuming things and rushing to conclussions, but then again, some people are like that.Sans is not weak by any means, specially in the emotional area. He didnāt even consider Icepantās claims of Toriel trying to use him as a possibility because he knows Toriel and knows she isnāt like that. However, there are things he still doesnāt know about himself, and thatās why the conversation had the unwanted effect of making him reflect in some things he had convinced himself to ignore. Icepants worked as a catalizer for what Sans is going through, but he is not the reason.