#heterosex

But the idea that women should get men's di*ks hard especially through fellatio so that the men can penetrate them is the most upside down shit ever. Men should be doing their best to make women lubricated enough for piv.

You are trying to penetrate me but I have to get you hard and make myself lubricated enough for that, that is so fucking dumb. Patriarchy is so fucking illogical if you really think about it.

For the "some women enjoy piv" response. I should hope so, if you are agreeing to that particular sexual act, I hope you are enjoying it. However, even if you enjoy piv, I still think men should be getting themselves hard and making sure women are lubricated enough for the act. The person with the most to lose should do the least. That will make the act less unequal (note there is no way to remove the inequality from piv, the only thing that can be achieved is reducing the degree of inequality).

Let me summarise Chooch And The ImAGay Adventures for you.

Basically, a troll tried to be a smartass in my shitpost about Light being gay and having yaoi hands (link to the answer that started it all, careful, cause it’s his blog, and he has an anthro fetish). This became an inside joke into a discord server, and we posted about it, which escalated into the inside joke spreading in the fandom.

Like, we’re usually a chill fandom. We don’t care the headcanons that people have, to each their own. My stars, I don’t even hc Light as gay! But for two days, just for shit and giggles, we united under the power of three things: Light Is Gay, The Whole Death Note is Gay (as in, lgbt+), and the fandom is homosex.

I love three things in this world. Sun, moon and you. Sun for morning, moon for night, and you forever.

This is a nice slogan, it might even be great for a T-Shirt BUT, this is where I ask you all, do you want a better quality of life or do you just want to complain about men? Either option is fine but let us stop pretending that we want one when we actually want the other.

Women already tell men to be better, what has that achieved? Has it resulted in any positive behavioural change? If women currently telling men to do better has not resulted in any positive change, what different outcome are you expecting?

If you truly want a better quality of life, you would understand that it is not about who is right or wrong, it is about where you (women) have more control. Women cannot control men, women can only control themselves.

No, I don't believe any woman who says she is in a happy relationship.

Women only wanting to date men they are physically attracted to should not even be a debate. The pushback women get for this is vitriolic one would think they are committing human rights violations (then again, most men think getting laid is a human right so I guess to them women are indeed violating their human rights). As with all things, men have women doing their dirty work for them so even other women demonise women for this.

Most people are like" You are shallow for wanting to be sexually attracted to the person you will be sexually involved with.' While the woke/healed ones virtue be like, "His character and how he treats you are more important."

Just because character is important doesn't mean physical attraction doesn't matter. The Venn Diagram for women's dating pool would be the intersection of actual good character and physical attractive to the woman.

I also think when people hear women say "I want a man I am physically attracted to" they hear "I want a GQ Model". And some women want a GQ Model (there is nothing wrong with that btw) but physical/sexual attraction is very personal. What one woman genuinely finds attractive, another does not.

Attraction is not just based on looks as a person's personality can make them more or less attractive to an individual. Attraction is based on a several factors some of which I have attempted to list below.

Facial Beauty/ Handsomeness

Body Shape and Proportions

Personal Hygiene & Grooming

Voice (David Beckham' s voice is a huge turn off for me even though he is somewhat handsome and has a nice body)

Fashion style

Intellect (I put intellect here because it is not related to character AND I am sure many of us have experienced liking a guy until you find out he is dumb).

Hobbies

Sense of Humor

Etc (this is not an exhaustive list).

Women's standards of physical attraction will vary from individual to individual and also with time (what one person finds attractive might change over their lifetime).

However, the bottom line is women should be romantically involved with men they find physically attractive per time. Yes I meant per time. I believe it is totally reasonable and sensible to end a relationship because you are no longer physically attracted to the person. Anybody who says otherwise wants to women to tolerate sex with men they aren't attracted to (aka lie back and think of xyz) which means they hate women.

FYI: I don't have a problem with men ending relationships because the physical attraction is gone if the breakup is respectful and kind.

Firstly, I thought it was understood in feminism 101 that partnered sex is not a need nor is it required for an orgasm but okay.