#heart based

I am entirely heart-based. I don’t know any other way to be. And god help me, there were certainly years where I tried to be less that. Someone I deeply cared about made me feel terrible for caring so much, which was just me being…me. (And that’s a story I will only tell over tequila.) And ouch. Because the funny thing about being heart-led is that you get hurt deeply, when things go sideways.

But I always return to center. I don’t have an insincere bone in my body. I joked the other day that I spent so much time trying to keep my heart from hurtling out of my mouth, and it’s true. I’m not the type to play it cool or hard to get or whatever. Fuck that. (I'm really not hard to read if I care, sorry not sorry.)

I love people as much as they let me, and I adore the moment where I realize I can do just that. The times where I understand that not only is it okay, but welcome. It makes me happy, to be let in. To be there. To help. I spend my time on those who matter to me, and that’s always deliberate.

I have always followed my heart, wherever it leads. And I realized the other day that I am still that little girl who walked across the room just to get a hug. But now I know how to drive, get on a train, or hop on a plane.

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The 9D Arcturian Council, Channeled by Daniel Scranton

“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.

We have been examining the ways of the human mind for quite some time, and it is our feeling that you must be getting tired of living your lives from such a limited perspective as the one that your mind provides you with. You must be ready to shift from being mind-oriented to being heart-centered, because being in your head is tiresome. Most of you can recall feeling exhausted physically after taking a big test in school, and that’s because you had to expend all of that mental energy that is so draining to who and what you really are as a being of light and love.

Now, shifting from the head to the heart has to be a decision, and it has to be a decision that you make over and over again. The best way to start your day there in the physical is to get your consciousness down into your heart space, and keep it there by breathing into that experience. You want to breathe into that light and love that you feel in your heart. You want to expand that feeling out so that you get your day started off on the right foot. We have been telling you time and time again that now is not the time to be over-thinking and analyzing what is going on there on planet Earth. Now is not the time to be arguing with each other about who is right. When you do so, you are using a part of yourself that is very limited and can only see through a very narrow lens.

Instead, try approaching others and your life in general from your heart. Lead with your heart. Come from your heart. Speak from the heart. And notice how your life changes for the better, instantaneously. With your mind, you’re always trying to solve another problem. You’re trying to figure something out. You want life to be predictable and controllable, because then your mind and your ego will feel safe. But if instead you use the heart-centered approach to life, you will be happy. You will find what it is you are looking for because you will vibrate your way to it.

When you are in your head, you can be completely oblivious to your vibration. You can be unaware of what you are feeling, and that does not serve you. That’s how you perpetuate the same problems that you’re having there on Earth for generation after generation. Be willing to spend some of your day just sitting with no electronics anywhere near you, and focus on what you can tune in to when you are heart-centered, open, receptive, and eager to see what the universe can drop right at your doorstep. This is how you become a spiritual master. This is how you master the physical realm, and this is how you master the art of manifestation, which we know you are all very interested in mastering.

In other words--if we say yes to anyone when we really mean no, we move into a position of compliance. And that is the same as lying. Our lips say yes, but our hearts (and often our half-hearted actions) say no.

If we can’t say no, we can’t say yes. Why is this? It has to do with our motivation to obey, to love, or to be responsible. We must always say yes out of a heart of love. When our motive is fear, we don’t come from a genuine place.

When we are afraid to say no, our yes is compromised.