#hate relationships

I wish I knew about this whole “love” thing before falling in love. This shit is terrible. I miss not having these feelings...is there a way to completely get rid of them?

As much as I'm against it like- I understand women using pregnancy as a means of keeping men in their lives. Looking around at couples (and even from some of my own experiences) and seeing men openly flirt with me (or other women) whilst holding their girlfriends hand has made me see finding someone worthwhile is tough. So when you find someone good (truly who you believe to be the best thing that ever happened) you want them to stay. But let's be honest- anybody who has been cheated on, belittled, lied to, or just replaced feels like that man would never stay with someone as stupid/dumb/bossy/or whatever negative thing you believe was the reason your previous S.O. left you. And so well- have a child. If he stays, you win and get the man of your life and the life of your dreams. If he goes, then he's always the bad guy and he'll be the asshole rather than you being inadequate. It's most definitely not a solution. But then again desperate people do desperate things. Especially if you don't have support or any form of coping with the backlash of relationships. I would never put a child in the middle of an existential crisis like this but I truly do get women who see this as a way of keeping the men they love with them and achieving some sort of emotional foundation or framework within which they can function on a daily basis. Quite frankly I'm personally sick and tired of chasing after people, giving everything of myself and then watching them willingly (or because of some destined departure) leave with everything I am. And each time it happens the rebuilding process is more and more tedious and gruesome. And then the next person I meet gets the pieces I glued back together and smashes them again into finer bits once they decide to leave too. You know... nobody ever stays. Except my family and friends... luckily.

When someone's trying to date me, but I'm not done having fun yet so 🙄🙃😁😴

every time I like someone it's all fun and games then we start dating and I get so annoyed w them, WHY?

2 months ago you told me every second you loved me and now you're whispering that into another girls ear and watching me fall apart :)))

worst romantic interest award goes to: you! congrats!

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, pardon the self-sympathy, but I feel so shit shit shit shit.