i’m so glad i started bringing fidgets with me years ago everywhere i go because i for whatever reason forgot i could bring them to church a while back after i started going so i started doing so a few months ago and it’s helped me so much, especially in stressful situations.
like literally no one gives a crap if i have them with me and they often ask what i have in my hands and i’ll show them/let them see. They help me so much to give my hands something to do since i have so much anxious energy at church and they also help me to focus during service. I started bringing them a few months ago during service and i also bring them with me to choir practice and youth service (i don’t interact w the kids i’m just there as an extra adult so that’s where i feel awkward about it lol) and any other events we have. I have also brought one to a work meeting before and that actually saved me cause i was an anxious mess the entire time. It helped me ground myself better in my job interview last week, too.
it’s also really cute cause i showed my fav church lady one of my new needohs and she loved it so much i brought her one and now we match. She stole my BRAND NEW mini needoh nice cube last week….. she thought i gave it to her and i was just like “well ig she needs it more than i do”…. She can keep it tho <3 idk why this post got so long i’m just yapping but omg i’m on a fidget kick right now since i lost my fav one and i’ve been going thru the 5 stages of grief over it (genuinely have been so sad and depleted over it) so i’m trying to remember all the good ones. I’m sick of squishy things rn.
