I just got a likely letter from Harvard and was accepted SCEA to Princeton. I seriously do not know what to do. How did you guys decide Princeton was the best choice, and why? Thx
Response from Amygdala:
First think about what academics you are interested. If you want to be an engineer for example, Princeton is objectively better. I am sure Harvard is better for other things, idk what they are. Maybe premed/prelaw?Â
The most important thing to do is to visit them, get a feel for the campus and talk to students there. Honestly, I think Harvard feels super strange. The campus feels like it has no personality and everyone is pretending to be Harvard students, if that makes any sense? Iâve gone there two or three times with the band and itâs a really bizarre feeling that I donât experience at any other school.Â
Also think about setting, Princeton is decidedly suburban whereas Harvard has very easy access to Boston. Neither is objectively better than the other, just think about where you feel you would be happiest.
Ultimately you canât really make a wrong choice, but I hope this might give you something to think about as you do more research and visit.
Response from Maybach Renntech:
I remember being in your shoes. Man time flies. But anyways, I got accepted into Brown, Princeton, Cornell, Penn, and Williams. My decision to come to Princeton rested on several factors. First of all the campus and feeling of the student body. I really didnât want to live directly in a city, I wanted a suburban feeling. I like having a nice, quiet, area, with a small number of people where I I always see someone I know when I go around. I wanted the social scene and activities to be focused on campus. And no absurd fraternity level drinking. Some people (like my friend at Columbia) may think thatâs boring and you may be one of them so consider that when choosing. I find that a lot of NYC people donât like the campus and miss the city. I personally love it, and even when I want the city, itâs only an hour away. Second, Princeton has a very small undergraduate population and an even smaller graduate population. Professors here are really here for the undergrads, we get a lot of attention, and we have very good support for us. I have had lecturers who never got promoted because they care about teaching more than publishing. Harvard on the other hand, has more graduates than undergraduates and you can easily be forgotten. One of my friends at Harvard told me âyou really have to put yourself out thereâ and also that several professors donât really want to teach undergrads. They just have to as part of their duties as professors. I also really wanted a liberal arts education, which made me turn down Wharton.Â
Now for some arguments against Princeton in favor of Harvard. First of all the thesis and requirements. Princeton is objectively harder than Harvard and that may affect you decision depending on how much you want inflated grades, your attitude, and your ability to handle anxiety and stress. This shouldnât be the only factor, but itâs worth saying that itâs probably easier to experience the non-academic rewards of college at Harvard. At Princeton, about 1/3rd of all students say that are overwhelmed academically, socially, emotionally, etc. At Harvard, itâs like 20%. Thatâs not to say Harvard is a joke. The best way I can sum it up is that at Harvard if you work your hardest in a course you will be rewarded with an A, at Princeton if you work your hardest you can still end up with a B. If you want to come to Princeton, you shouldnât have an attitude that youâll still be number 1 in everything, that you need to get all Aâs, and youâll get accepted into most of the clubs you apply for. Princeton takes people down a notch, while Harvard tends to inflate egos further. This leads to another issue which is if you want to go to grad school. I know it may make some people uncomfortable, but Harvard is better if you are pre-med for example. Med-schools like the highest grades possible. Princeton will put you at a disadvantage and youâll have to work harder to the point of insanity for some people if you want to be in good shape. Of course there are exceptions (like Nick), but they are in the minority and thereâs no way to predict how you will fare here as a pre-frosh.Â
Thereâs a reason why our (and UChicago and Columbia) pre-med acceptance rate is so high. Itâs because the advisors tell a huge number of prospective pre-meds to not even apply because they have no chance. They get weeded out. As someone who comes from a family of doctors let me also tell you this. Nobody cares where you did you undergraduate degree if you want to be a doctor. Med school, residency, and fellowships are 10 times more important. I can only recommend Princeton to a pre-med if they want that excellent liberal arts experience, they will be able to handle the rigor to get the necessary grades and still have a life, the campus, and because they got a good financial aid package. This is because it makes no sense to pay more money for worse grades. You could go to a good state school, l take it easy and get into a top Med school with good MCAT scores. In this case Harvard is probably less stressful. But there are numerous other things to consider. I just scratched the surface. My advice is to keep talking to real students (NOT TOUR GUIDES) and find both the good and bad and see which matches your preferences the best. As Amygdala said, thereâs no wrong choice.
Response from Nick Carraway:
Just want to add the âsuccessful premed perspective.â Donât count Princeton out because youâre premed or prelaw. Med schools and law schools know that Princeton is one of the most rigorous institutions in the country. Though our average premed GPA might be slightly lower than that of Harvardâs, our premed acceptance rate is likely almost equivalent. HPA (thatâs health professions advising; the advising system for premeds here) publishes statistics on the average GPAs of Princeton students that get accepted into all the top medical schools each year. Take Harvard med, for example (highly-ranked, consistently top 3). The average GPA of all students accepted to Harvard med is a 3.94. When you look at the average GPA of Princeton students accepted to Harvard med in the past 5 years, itâs a 3.83. This is the case for all of the top med schools. I agree, this place is hard as hell. But if you apply yourself and are serious about the premed path, you can be more than successful here. I donât know if I agree with the above assertion that all the premeds get âweeded out.â Is this not the case at every school in classes like orgo and biochem? Most of the premeds I know here are succeeding, even if theyâre not hitting a 4.0.













