the lore is confusing but calling rei an abuser is...sort of missing what abuse is. abuse isnt one bad psychotic episode. it's a repeated pattern of hurting someone through an upheld power dynamic. i think trying to frame her as an active abuser even with everything in the newer lore is incorrect because at worst she's neglectful, which is still bad, but i also think its very clear that she was under a lot of pressure. just because fuyumi was born and she said itd be good for touya doesnt make her an abuser, it means she was hoping she could make the best out of a bad marriage before she understood how bad it could get. i think shes very realistically written for what bnha is and i genuinely wish there was more abt her and her feelings esp after so many endeavor pity party chapters
gonna just post these as they are since again idk what tf im talking about 😭
