I'm a binary trans man, and my pronouns are he/him. This is my sideblog to talk about things without worrying about how it will affect my main. Such as (but not limited to):
- Transandrophobia is real
- the existence of transandrophobia does not negate the existence of transmisogyny
- toxic masculinity affects everyone
- bigotry does not stop being bigotry regardless of who it's aimed at
- there are no exceptions in absolutes
There will likely be some distressing posts on this blog related to these topics, so enter at own risk.
I try to use language that acknowledges the existence of, and includes, intersex people, nonbinary people, multigender people, BIPOC, acespec/arospec, disabled, and neurodivergent people, as well as all romantic/sexual identities. I try to be aware of the vocabulary that these communities have asked us to use or not use. If any of my posts (unless I specify I am only speaking about one group) excludes a group, it is not done intentionally, and I encourage you to let me know how I can improve.
Since this is a sideblog, I like/follow from i-----k.
My sexuality is gay, achillean, and likely fluid. I'm on the acespec but haven't found a label I resonate with (tho the closest is cupiosexual or demisexual). I'm happily taken, currently monogamous, and pro-kink. I live in Canada with my partner and our cats. I work in STEM, and in my off time I draw, write, or do car/motorcycle stuff.
I'm neurodivergent (AuDHD) so if I come off as blunt and unfriendly, it's usually not personal. In a similar vein, I'm not consistently active, so responses to asks/messages will come when I can get to them.
Asks are always open, and anons are on. I answer everything. For better or for worse. So, feel free to send me your questions, experiences, or thoughts. You are always welcome to ask for clarification for anything I have posted. All asks are tagged with #apollosfallen asks
DMs are open, and you are free to message me if you wish.
I don't have a DNI. My only wish is that any interaction is in good faith. And some reading comprehension (or ask to clarify if you’re unsure). I do however reserve the right to block and/or tell people to fuck off my blog.
Feel free to tell me if my posts have been screenshotted and posted with commentary. I'm always curious about my footprint.
I don't have a strict tagging system, but I try to get some of the broad strokes under "#tw [thing]". You are welcome to request a tag given that it is reasonable.
I have a #good reference tag that I recommend going through for well worded points around the above topics
Original posts will be tagged: #apollosfallen
Rambling and unrelated updates will be tagged #apollosfallen off topic
Additions to reblogs are tagged #apollosfallen additions