Oct 18, 2025
The only way forward is to stop treating masculinity as synonymous with harmful, monstrous, or dangerous.
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The only way forward is to stop treating masculinity as synonymous with harmful, monstrous, or dangerous.
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The argument of "trans men have privilege when they pass" is also so asinine because privilege isn't just "other men treating you nicer" it's getting unbiased and unrestricted medical attention, it's lower or no statistics of corrective sexual assault or impregnation, it's not having actual laws passed against your existence, it's not having to worry about passing in the first place, it's having historical figures retain their identity and not erased in some girl power misgendering bs, it's having your identity celebrated instead of treated like a loss of something pure.
If you think male privilege is just being treated like "one of the guys" in day to day life, you need to relearn a lot of things about privilege before you try to have these conversations.
"Actually I think we need to hate men 😊" "It's time we admit that men aren't hated enough" "Proud misandrist✨️"
I feel Unsafe around you. You settle into hostility too casually.
I wish we'd stop taking our own insecurities and acting as if they're fucking gospel for everyone.
Trans men and trans mascs don't have "afab" privilege. You covet femininity to the point that someone rejecting it is irrational to you. And, not all trans men or mascs are afab.
Trans men can't have cis male privilege- even when stealth- because privilege cannot be contingent on hiding an identity. You just want an easier target because you feel the need to take your anger out on men.
Transandrophobia isn't reactionary to, or excluding, transmisogyny. Not everything had to be about you. And hey, if you want to be included, transandrophobia- just like transmisogyny- can affect everyone. It's not about the identity of the victim, it's about the nature of the transgressions against the victim.
it's not noble or praxis to be a misandrist. Other people finding comfort in masculinity doesn't make it evil, no matter how uncomfortable you are with it.
A trans person isn't faking it because they like to dress a certain way, or don't change their name, or have sex using the genitalia they were born with, or whatever. Your dysphoria or discomfort does not determine reality.
tme/tma isn't progressive. You have a victim complex and want to wear it like a badge, at the expense of other marginalized groups.
It is not "cultural appropriation" to use "Egg", Blahaj, t4t, etc. for trans men, trans mascs, and non binary people. Other people get to have things, and gatekeeping isn't cute.
Not Everything Is About You.
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Trans men deserve to love being men unapologetically.
Trans mascs deserve to love being masculine unapologetically.
Enjoying masculinity shouldn't come with a side of guilt.
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Yall notice that people on this site firmly believe that their hatred of men is more important than listening to trans men, nonbinary people, and intersex people?
I'm so tired of trans men being used as nothing but objects for sake of argument.
I'm tired of being used by TERFs as "proof" that trans people are predators targeting "helpless little girls".
I'm tired of being used by TRFs as "proof" that men in all forms are monsters for daring to speak about the bigotry trans men face.
I'm tired of being used by "allys" as a gotcha, or 'is this who you want in the women's restroom?'
I'm tired of being afraid to use public bathrooms. I'm tired of examining why.
I'm tired of convincing myself that being masculine is not equivalent to being a monster. I'm tired of defending myself for being proud of my masculinity.
I'm tired of having to claim and account for every point of nuance before making a positive statement about masculinity.
I'm tired of the "I hate men", the "men should die", and the following "you don't count [you're not a man to me, you should know this]". I'm tired of my identity being an exception.
I'm tired of being held to a suffocating, high standard lest I trip up and "prove" that I'm just in it for the privilege.
I'm tired of scouring trans representation/ trans pride media and finding no one like me.
I'm tired of facing the same shit I did before my transition, and not being allowed to call it misogyny.
I'm tired of defending my medical rights, only to be told they don't apply to people like me.
I'm tired of people telling me who I am, who I should be. I'm tired of people telling me how I suffer, how I live.
I'm tired. I'm so fucking tired.
Kinda tired of cis women telling me to "stop policing their language" whenever I make a post that anti-masculinity rhetoric harms trans people. The insinuation that a trans man has the systemic power to threaten any cis person with consequence of imprisonment or death to do anything, when in reality it is cis people that hold the systemic power to, and currently are, commit a trans genocide, would be hilariously ironic if it weren't frustrating beyond belief.