#getcomfortablewithchange

Do you know your subconscious personality needs? They drive every choice you make, like what you want to do for work and how that looks, or whether romantic relationships are more important than work or work is more important than romantic relationships, or if family is more important than either or both.

Do you know how to meet your own needs? Do you feel anxiety at me asking that? Or are you a master expert at meeting your own needs? Are you able to express your needs?

I find that a lot of people go on one side or the other • they either get high anxiety when asked to meet their own needs, or • they don’t know how to ask others with help with their needs (or think they don’t have any needs that others can/should meet)

And the truth is - you need to both meet your own needs and be open to receiving help or company for your needs from others.

But do you even know your needs, truly? Do you know the needs that have been formed inside you that shape you and shape your decisions and might create conflict by us thinking our needs are standard and objectively in the order we have them?

Which one are you? Comment below! 👇👇👇