#gender!!!!

obligatory dan arm crashout post

i truly wonder if gerard knows how many kids' gender crises they have mended. like,, i know people have told them that a few times but im rly thinking about whether he knows the full scope or not. there's a masterpost somewhere on here compiling all of Gerard's Gender Moments™ and i'm totally serious when i say that helped me figure out my gender. i re-adopted he/they pronouns literally last night and it feels like it's always worked and always been me. i used to use them in the past and then drifted away, tried out neopronouns (which are dope as hell, btw) and finally settled on where i started. rambling aside, gerard has seriously been a huge inspiration for me in my music, my writing, my art, expression, and freedoms that i am Very grateful for. i'm just very grateful for mychem as whole tbh

I’ve kind of liked being gendered by others as a woman lately tbh but only bc another half of ppl gender me as a man. I love the mixing of perceptions