Also, for the record: the term "gold star lesbian" is all kinds of gatekeepy and fucked up, and if you're a lesbian and anyone you come across cares about your "gold star" status, you are legally entitled to steal all their breadsticks and run.

would you be the gatekeeper to my girlboss?

Instead of taking the time out if your day to be worth less than the crust on the stove that you never clean, how about you do something productive? Here's a no-bake cheesecake recipe to distract yourself from all that gatekeeping, you pieces of garbage. Don't like cheesecake? Look up your own recipes on Martha Stewart's website. Now f*ck off. Never look at this blog again.

because there are probably a good few of you who are feeling shocked and betrayed and upset about this right now and i feel sympathy for you to a point --- but more than that what i feel is hope that you have enough feeling and awareness in you to realize that this is exactly how you, as exclusionists, have made your fellow lgbtqia+ people feel over and over and over again and hope that this will be a wake up call for y'all about what the fuck kind of rhetoric you've been subscribed to and exactly how harmful it is.

at this point we've circled through bisexuals getting targeted to nonbinary people to pansexuals to a-specs and now we're back to pansexuals again (with probably like 100 other targets in between those; like it's been 1000 years of this, i can't remember all the specifics). we've got exclusionists still recycling the same arguments, word for word, repeating the same thing they said about aces literally last week about pansexuals this week (which is ironically the same thing they were saying about pansexuals like 3 years ago too---what came first, the chicken or the egg?), and yet some of y'all are still somehow shocked by all this as though it's something new and not something that dozens of us have been predicting would happen for months as soon as the ace discourse died down.