#friendzoneproblems

Why do nice guys get friend zoned?

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I really just woke up from the most random bad dream. I met up with this girl that I really like, & was gonna have sex with. It was raining and started to flood, so I stayed at some house. So, I noticed a guy that my friend probably noticed, & I had a feeling they’d talk. I thought I’d be with her first, at the least. She kinda disappers for awhile. Then 50 cent starts to make fun of me, & we’re all quiet then in the other room we hear whispering. It’s the girl I like, with the guy from earlier. I start yelling at everyone in the room. Mr. feeny tried to calm me down, but I’m livid. I also had learned she would only be here for 2 days. After she would go back to North Carolina. I tell everyone that we only talk about it in this house. After we leave, we never bring it up. I woke up after that. Even in my dream, I lose the girl to another guy. I guess it’s just been in my mind lately. Cause the girl in real life told me, she’s coming to visit. And, I’m trying to avoid, how I feel. Like, I point out all her flaws, long toes, chubby(actually working out though so this is changing) makeup, but, I guess what my dream is telling me is...I’m still not over when in real like she picked my friend, over me.

I love galaxy. I love that girl so much, it sucjs how she lives in North Carolina. Sucks how she has a bf. But, when she was up here, looking at all the signs I missed, I shoulda tried something. My dream saw me and galaxy hanging out, about to have sex, but I was so nervous in the dream, I was making out with her and stuff. Eventually, I did have sex with her, but then I woke myself cause it didn’t feel real. Looking around to see it was only a dream, sucks.

Back to an all to familiar storyline. I'm in the friendzone with the same exact prom lens once again. There's a girl I've grown close to...but she got a boyfriend while I was still her friend. There's a huge age difference that made me not to try. And I had just got heartbroken from a girl previously. And others, it's an ongoing cycle. I've got to know this girl..and it's the little things that make me care more about her. Problem is...I do like her. But I'm not ever willing to tell her. Or make a move or anything. I'd rather it be ignored. The girl does know I like her. But, she never brings it up with me. She's told others she knows. I'd rather it just be ignored. I'd rather be ignored. I just wish..for once...a cute girl would actually like me.

In madden terms, it's like I got blitzed...only to get double blitzed. At work I saw Jen and her BF. That's my homie and love her, but seeing her bf, I kinda just want to look in any other direction. Then came the haymaker. Dnyce & Oreo returned for an hour. It essentially left me scrambling no where to go..cause I like both girls .& huge boyfriends where just there. I avoided dnyce as much as possible, but man, that shook me. I actually had to turn back to Jen for help, cause you know she's my friend after all, & at times she's helpful and calming. I also feel on a broom today..so it was just a bad day. I was informed that Jen may be leaving soon, which in a way I'm happy for her. I may try a little harder to get her a decent gift then..cause I wanna be a good friend and have staying power. But, man all I wanted to do when I saw the 2 boyfriends is run.

No other words need to be said. I've been seeing cc a lot lately, & it reminds me so much of the Stephanie situation. I remember I was willing to go the extra mile for her, & to be fair Steph did..then it stopped. I have a huge underlying fear that cc is gonna leave me as a friend, & that terrifies me. also, I don't like how angel put me on blast..2x. The first is how he basically said as a favor to me..he asked if this girl would come back. She kinda ignored my name..which is good, at the same time bad. Also, angel was in the wrong, I woulda asked stealthy.i know in my heart of hearts I have no chance with the girl, but, maybe I'll forget about the other girls I've liked like Jen and cc. I also don't like the fact that he brings up I used to like Jen. Even though Jen is soooo hot, she has a man. Not only that but she's closer to d. & that hurts me a lot. That I can't even be good friends with someone. I guess angel doesn't know I still like Jen. & because of that it gets me nervous. I don't want Jen to know I like her..or used to like her. Cause people just...disappear when that happens.going back to the return..I can't talk to the girl anymore, she has a man..& I have to respect that.ive seen dnyce's current bf..he would destroy me. Probably have to take a trip to suplex city. It's just all these issues I have now. I'm just trying to hide these feelings.

It means a lot of things..as always I really do hate the end of summer. Because so much can change in the blink of an eye. Off the top of my mind, is my group of friends, cc leaves in a week. I'll miss her, she's been one of my closer fitness. She's also due to be a mom soon. I don't know how that will affect things. I've had experiences where people just leave me. The theatre I love the job, because of the people. But, I know my friends are leaving..& it worries me. 3 close friends are leaving, with the other 2 probably leaving too..I don't want to stay if my squad leaves. To use basketball metaphors, I clearly wear my emotions on my sleeve and I am so dedicated to my friends. I don't want to lose people. I see Steph is also having another child. That friendship is officially over i see. Another bitter pill to swallow. Watching movies, I feel so..hungry to get a girl. All I need is one.. I feel like I'm close. These movies makes me feel I just have to wait for the girl meant for me. I'm still waiting.