#foxtrotsky

No, I don’t know.

That's what I thought IRT hinduism, but I was't sure.

They really are. Fucking genetics. :-P

Hmm, maybe. I've always had an hourglass shape. I mean, I'm not super tall (5'3" and a little bit), so when I was heavier it was still an hourglass, but, you know, kinda squashed so that the middle bit was very wiiiide. :) I gain and lose weight equally all over my body, but when I was at my heaviest I carried a lot in my stomach because there wasn't really anywhere else for it to go. 

yeah. like, again, queer is still a slur and i think a lot of younger people (i've never seen anybody over the age of 18 or so use "queerphobia") have a hard time remembering that? i mean, obviously i'm young too, but because i've never really felt "connected" to the idea of being queer (i'll use it linguistically if i need to, but my irl friends are alwaaaays getting on me for not feeling comfortable identifying other people as queer) i really can't dissociate it from the slur. and then there's also the whole issue of "what do straight people do" if we start discussing it as "queerphobia" i literally never want to hear that phrase exit a straight person's mouth. 

yeah nooo. i mean, in my brain there's like homophobia which is used for the entire community because that's the fucking accepted term. (same way antisemitism is used for the entire jewish community and not for other semitic communities, because of fucking etymology). and biphobia is specific to bi (and pan/poly too i suppose) people and others who are attracted to multiple genders. and lesbophobia is specific to lesbians (and at times bi women, depending on the specific nature of it ig). but queerphobia is literally never necessary and i just find it really gross.

It was just a nightmare, thank G-d, because I'm not in the mood for dealing with fat shaming today anyhow.

So no one to get in trouble here.