#five ys

"Transfeminists" when they read intersex in your bio and automatically decide you are afab legally female feminine cis girl and tell you that you have never experienced transmisogyny before #okay

Every day it is very apparent that cisgender and perisex people I talk to on tumblr want very badly to refer to me as "male" or "female", whichever benefits them most at the moment, so I just remind everyone that I am neither.

As much as I may not mention it, I am very much aware of several blogs on this site that stalk and harass transfems while claiming to just be anti-predator or keeping people safe. You aren't keeping anyone safe by harassing transfeminine people for weeks or even months at a time especially over small instances of behaviour you may not like.

It is truly saddening how some people on this site claim to be transfeminists but when it really comes to it they are not. They see intersex transfems like me as not actually being transfem because of my anatomy and the fact that I refuse to ID with any agab. I have even heard that supposedly someone made a post about me explicitly calling me afab without proof? But the way that information reached me was sorta stretched out so may not be accurate. Anyways I don't have an assigned sex and I am transfem and Iove myself for it yayayayayay 🫶🫶🫶🫶

The majority of things I post about mention specifically transfems and intersex people of an unspecified gender unless I say intersex transfems, but I have never had anyone- and certainly not any trans man- say "but what about men????" as some so-called 'transfeminists' here would like to have you believe this is an hourly occurrence. I believe this is because I make it clear that I love and support trans men so there is no question to be asked of my feelings around them on my other posts.

I would recommend everyone block @\randomanonlurker (edit: they changed urls to @\thisismyonlyfuckingaccount). They are starting arguments and taking anything said in the worst faith possible, as well as being transmisogynistic and predatorjacketing several intersex and transgender individuals. They also seem oblivious to the fact that an "educational resource" does not entail a resource is for children and accused me of wanting to show pornography to minors simply because I said pornography produced by intersex individuals in which genitalia is shown can be used by other intersex individuals to learn more about their own anatomy and see it more clearly if the one producing said pornography has the same or a similar variation to them. Clearly a person who has no interest in good faith discussion or apologizing for transmisogynistic and intersexist remarks.