#firstpartaker

It's a shame but so many people have done this....including me. No one is exempt from the temptation or guilt of doing so. If you think you are, then you ...LOL... definitely need to check yourselves. Own your "TRUTH". Take accountability of your crap and move on with your lives. The problem with society today is that everyone whose not an open book 📚 are the ones suffering in silence and walk outside daily with a mask 🎭 on hiding their true selves. It's ok, you're human. Accept who you are and quit thinking everything is about you...it's not. #FIRSTPARTAKER #leasonlearned #itsnotaboutyou #maybeitis Anyway....in the words of this young lady, @kahlilah_myesha, "...Social Media defines so many people because their real lives have #zero substance 💯." Kudos to you ma'am & @hershei82❣️ ~Rece Fuqùa ~💜~© #elanmien #lifepresence #bepresent #beinthenow

"So after all the distractions, good, bad or indifferent, you still have work to do. GET TO IT❗️#FIRSTPARTAKER" ~Rece Fuqùa ~💜~© #elanmien #lifepresence #bepresent #beinthenow

"I once was ashamed of my capabilities of loving hard. I thought I was foolish but I'm not any more, I just learned to use wisdom about who I give my love to. It's all or nothing after I sit and study them and their energy and their heart ❤️. Actions and Patterns reveal everything, even in ourselves." #firstpartaker ~Rece Fuqùa ~💜~ #elanmien #lifepresence #bepresent #beinthenow #lovehard #neverbeashamed #bewise

"BEING AWARE OF YOUR WORTH IS WORTH IT". #firstpartaker •There's no time for you to settle for someone who sees you as just average. •No time for those who sees your flaws and insufficiencies then run for the border. •What you're doing is setting yourselves up for failure. •People tend to create an ideal image of a person or relationship and end up never being satisfied. What people do is have unrealistic expectations and when they are not met they take it out on their partner and even themselves. Stop creating a fairytale story in your heads and expect everyone to live up to it. It's not fair to you or the opposite party. Instead, set realistic goals with your partner, evaluate who they are an who you are with them. Determine if they're worthy of your time and efforts, make a decision, compromise if need be then adjust accordingly. It's takes time to learn how to cohabit-ate with someone you plan to spend the rest of your life with. It may not be easy because you are changing your whole life around and you're adapting to another humans lifestyle. It's all about pros-cons-compromise-10's & 2's and then some. It takes effort to build something great for a lifetime. #firstpartaker #elmien #bepresent #inthenow #lifepresence #selfevaluation #notimeforamythingless #valueyourtime #loveonpurpose ~recefuqùa.com~💜~2017'