Advice for me would be great, I know I run this blog but it’s just date ideas and when we’re in our own situations we can’t see straight anyways here’s my situation:
This guy and I were seeing each other for a month. It was fun, the last time we saw each other was actually really fun and it’s weird that we went from that to then being distant through texting and now it’s been a month and a bit since we’ve talked and really ended things.
He’s the one who ended it. He said he’s too busy for a relationship and said he should have realized that before starting something with someone. It was my first time consistently seeing someone and going on dates every week. To be talking all the time, to have someone to cuddle, send memes to, etc. I actually had that for once and it felt nice?!
I want to get over him. It’s been a month and a bit since we’ve talked and I made a reach bc I figured you know what if I want to talk I want to talk to him. I’d rather live a life of a ‘I tried at least’ than ‘what if’. He never responded and even unfollowed me on Instagram (the only social media site we added each other on other than Snapchat). We are still friends on Snapchat and he watches my stories and such.
How does one get over their first? We didn’t have normal straight sex but we did do oral sex, and I mean he’s technically not my first kiss but in a way he was. My real first kiss? He was paid $30 to kiss me at a grade 6 birthday party so you know I kinda count it kinda don’t. Anyways my point how do you get over your first relationship/break up??