#findingtheone

Ughh.... Let me say it again.... UGHHHH!!!!

Dating this day in age is horrendous! 

I’ve tried all the dating apps and hated them, I literally ended up just using them for conversation, scrolling through endless messages of feeble attempts to get my attention. How easy it must be to hit on a woman/man through a message without being rejected to your face. I for one won’t even respond depending on the initial attempt of conversation. It usually starts with, “ Hey sexy” or “Hey beautiful do you like black guys” or the worst “You fine” *GAG*

              What happened to confidence, chivalry and courtship?? Or simply approaching with courtesy!?! People are so scared to do exactly what should and used to be done back in the day! Vibes in person are so important, but now that we’ve resulted to this online dating scenario, all I want to do is weed out the bad, give my number to the potentials, but block the changers ( the ones that put a front on to get your number but change up once they get it because they think they’re in) lol... No sir, not for me, luckily the block feature on my phone has came to be amazingly useful. 

Sometimes a client sees all the homes, but still hasn’t made a move. 🏡💭 When I ask, “How are you feeling about the homes we’ve seen so far?”

The honest answer? “Well… I guess deep down I’m feeling a little confused.”

And that’s okay. Buying a home isn’t just a financial decision—it’s an emotional one too. Torn between dream home vibes and real-world factors like budget, commute, and resale? You’re not alone.

Reread the quote above, and reread it again. All too often I hear, “I’m not good enough for him/her. They’ve made it quite clear. Now what?” Now what? You move on. The reality of it is, you may not be “the one” for someone now, but you will be “the one” for another. That’s where the good ole phrase “there’s other fish in the sea” comes into play. Just because you’re not meant to be with one person, doesn’t mean you’re going to be like me, and be the lonely crazy cat lady, feeding pigeons off of a bridge.” Explore your options. Explore people. Go with the flow. You never know, “the one” may just be right in front of you.

It was March 13, 2021 it was our pre-wedding photoshoot. I was feeling excited and enjoying the moment..

And I am asked myself: IS THIS FOR REAL? FOR LIFETIME?

I don’t believe in destiny or whatever but God’s will. Definitely. I believe that there’s someone God is sending or pairing you up. You just need not to rush, but trust His Will.

So if you are waiting for the one. I hope you wait and pray for him or her.

You can never tell when. It just happened eventually. For both of us, we started as friends and grow deeper and closer and we trust God where HE was taking us. Little did I know it was full of surprises.

As we are together for all these years and finally this year it will be a memorable one. I came to realized a lot of things for being single and going to be married.

As other couples, we have a lot of differences and beliefs, we tend to talk about some stuff like such as each other’s flaws and lapses. I learned in the process up until now, you have to be open-minded, full understanding and reliable partner. 

I learned to trust Him more to the things I can’t manage and also him. 

But of course, we do love and appreciate each others’ good sides, but loving each other’s bad side and accepting the fact we are not both perfect partners is the most challenge of them all yet worth it when you both overcome with the help of God, as the center of our relationship.

I hope I inspire young couples or even the even the single ones, to wait and trust God’s plan in your Love life.

To those couple who are struggling, let me ask you a question: IS HE/SHE IS THE ONE? IF YES WHY? IF NO, PRAY FOR IT.

Trust Him and it will be worth it.

Wanna give thanks for the amazing team for this wonderful photoshoot session.

God bless you!

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