#femmeshepard

(pssst if you want to help your extremeties pick up a couple of Magic Bags and heat them up before you go to bed then tuck them in your sheets near the foot of your bed. the fabric should hold the heat long enough for you to sleep at night!)

feli thank you for being awesome about tagging your 100 spoilers you're a gem

Once you get this you have to say 5 things you like about yourself publicly then send it to your 10 favorite followers.

Once you get this you have to say 5 things you like about yourself publicly then send it to your 10 favorite followers.

It's no problem, thank you for being so understanding. <3

I mean that's fine if that's the case, but don't advertise your blog as being accepting to individuals who identify as agender or non-male when it's fairly obvious you're restricting your parameters to afab people who at least partially identify as male. It's misleading and more importantly it's disrespectful to say "we include everyone" and then say, "well I mean if you don't like being called a boy you don't really fit here".

While I totally appreciate the afab appreciation, if you're going to include non binary people (specifically people who still absolutely do not identify as male), calling us "boys" isn't really helpful either because that's not what we are. It sort of adds to the problem that if an afab trans person abstains from acting male that they're not "trans" enough, and kind of makes some of us feel like we're still being pushed into the male or female box.