#feedismbatman

I've been absent from the community and I apologize. I would like to continue spreading awareness about fraud, harassment, and impersonation on this blog, if you'll still allow it.

I know that there are many people who have kept spreading this important information, and I'm grateful.

❌ @yougotfat

❌ @allthatflab

❌ @gaynergainz

❌ @overfedblog

❌ @heavypeople

❌ @loudlyjollytimetravel

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❌ @dadbodbellies

❌ @flabbyfatboy

Throwing out the Bat Signal here:

He also runs a 13-17 discord server for fetish stuff.

Just kind of sketch

Well, I think its probably important to share because then people can block them.

Always a reminder to please not engage with or follow people in the kink space (or really in any sexual space and even be careful with regular spaces with adults) because

it's not a space for you quite yet

the people you follow could get in big trouble if they unknowingly interact with you

you open yourself to exploitation from bad actors

In the age of internet discourse, nuance is lost. I left this blog for a long time because I was afraid of making mistakes or causing accidental harm and having that overshadow the purpose of this blog. I am still very scared of that. It has never and will never be my intention to harm anyone or purposefully spread misinformation.

I am not saying I should not be corrected or informed when I do make a mistake. I appreciate when people do point something out or correct me or point me to further information. That is an important part of learning and moving forward in life, just generally.

I think I wanted to share this because most things in life do have nuance (with exception ofc) and I try to consider most sides of an issue before I make a post about it. I have made mistakes in the past (remember when I accidentally didn't believe it was Mary?) and do my best to ensure that I have all information before I make a post.

As I said, I don't think there's anything wrong with other teenagers having a server solely for them to explore the fetish/kink. The issue would come if there were adults in the server and they were discussing sexual topics.

yes I would agree. I think the issue comes where they're following and/or interacting with blogs that clearly state their age and ask for underage people to not interact.

They can definitely explore together; I don't think I was condemning that.

This is a more nuanced issue but I still think it needs to be addressed in some way.  As stated multiple times on this blog, models do not owe the public anything just by existing and making content.  However, I think if someone is sending you money in good faith in exchange for some photos of a stuffing or something similar, it is best practice to either follow through with it or refund the money.  

The individual who sent these to me was perfectly respectful in their interaction with me and in the screenshots sent, and while that doesn’t mean they are entitled to anything, it’s kind of a shitty move to take money from someone and block them immediately after.  They stated she blocked them after not responding for about 2 days.   Please be careful when sending money.  On the one side, watch out for scammers and if something seems off, do not send anything.  On the other side, don’t make it a practice to take money from people with no intention on following through.  Talk about the terms and conditions of any transactions before making them.  Ensure that all sides are on the same page regarding what the transaction will be.