3,7,9,10
3: When youâre alone in the middle of the night and you canât quite get to sleep, what do you think about? âGoing to sleepâ doesnât count.
Iâm never really âaloneâ in the middle of the night, because I live with my boyfriend, but a lot of the time he falls asleep before me, so I guess I am essentially alone then. Mostly I just think about how close itâs getting to my son's due date and how Iâm really not ready for it but also Iâm very impatient and I just want it to happen right now. Also sometimes I just think about random things that are making me sad at that specific time.
7: Do you believe mutual attraction based on mutual hatred is possible?
Sure, why not?
9: Do you focus more on the past, the present, or the future?
I used to focus far too much on the past, but over the past year Iâve found myself focusing much more on the present/future. Mostly the future, though. But only because Iâm waiting for my son to be ready to pop on out. Other than thinking about that nearly 24/7, though, Iâm content keeping my thoughts on the present, for the most part, which is a nice change of pace from the rest of my life, and I think Iâm happier this way. Or maybe Iâm this way because Iâm happier.
10: Do you judge people for what they wear or how they express themselves?
I canât tell if this is an either or question or a yes or no question omfg. But, like, I definitely donât judge people based on how they dress. Because A) A lot of people canât afford to dress the way they want to, so sometimes the way someone dresses isnât how they wish they were dressing and maybe theyâd be a lot different in style if they could buy what they really wanted to buy, and B) A lot of people have a lot of different styles, so if you only meet them once, then what theyâre wearing that day could be totally different from what theyâd be wearing a different day, etc. I mean, obviously a lot of people use clothes to express themselves. Thatâs kind of what theyâre for. But I donât think you can really judge too much based on clothes. Like, I canât look at someone and be like âOh, theyâre wearing a band t-shirt, obviously they go to rock concerts and get drunk all the time.â or like âHmâŚA pink sweater? She probably has a cat and donates to charity.â I donât even know what Iâm saying anymore. I donât even think this answer makes sense. Iâm tired. I didnât get enough sleep last night.
(Sorry it took me so long to reply, I was on mobile up until just now.)
