we all know the aiel spear maidens play the game of Maiden's Kiss, but I also feel like they would have a bunch of games that they just play amongst themselves that are super gay, but they don't perceive it as such. Like a locker room culture type of thing
Elayne: I'm telling you Aviendha, all of the games you play with your spear maidens, they're super gay
Aviendha: what? That is... a ridiculous notion Elayne, where would you get that from
Elayne: well... what was that game you were just playing, Desert's Rose? You just hold someone's head between your thighs until they pass out
Aviendha: yea, Desert's Rose. What is gay about that?
Elayne: all of it, all of it is gay
Aviendha: it's a test of strength
Elayne: ok, that's... well, what about that other game, Veil of Dusk? Someone kissing you while you close your eyes and you have to guess who it is
Aviendha: wordless communication is important to the aiel
Elayne: with your mouth? You need to be wordless with your lips and tongue?
Aviendha: a band of spear maidens must move as one. It's important that we know each other's bodies intimately
Elayne: ok but you hear... you hear yourself saying that right? "Know each other's bodies intimately", you hear those words as you say them
Aviendha: you are so funny Elayne, you always find a way to look at things in strange new ways, even if no one else would think to do it
Elayne: I don't think that's what's happening here. That being said... you know what what would really help me, uhm, understand this part of your culture...
Aviendha: you're not playing the games with us Elayne, you're not a spear maiden
Elayne: you see this is what upsets me