As an enfj, my emotions are central to who I am. I’m a “feeler”, and these intrinsic responses to human relationship are a strength and weakness. I’m prone to letting my feelings cloud my judgement. But, I am beautifully raw and tender hearted to those I engage with.

...I am a suburban mom in its purest form

ENFJ's are prone to feeling before they even know why. Sometimes we start having feelings for people, and then reality catches up with us an we realize that we simply were attracted to their actions and not them necessarily. Unfortunately we also hate telling people we don't have feelings for them... so this can end up in a very complicated, emotional cycle.

Single ENFJ: - "you don't need one day to focus on loving someone. That's what every day is for" - buys gifts for everyone and their dogs - takes at least 2 breaks during the day to have a little cry - hosts a party for all the other singles they know - internally screaming when they see other couples Taken ENFJ: - has been planning for this day for approximately 5 months prior - won't say, but expects you to do the same - notices single friends and go out of his/her way to make sure they feel loved and affirmed - thinks about all the lonely people and takes 5 minutes to feel really sad for them - is already planning to surprise SO with a themed gift or activity for St. Patrick's Day

Either I forget to eat for an entire day because I'm too preoccupied with saving the world or I eat an entire grocery store aisle in one binge

Sometimes I don't just want the talking and the feelings. Sometimes it's best not to say anything; just hold my hand and look me in the eyes without words. Physical intimacy is often far greater than verbal communication.

(Doesn't get a text back) Maybe their phone died. Or maybe they typed out a message and forgot to press send. Ha. They wouldn't just not text back... would they? Like it's not that big of a deal. I'm fine. It's fine. Ok, this isn't fine. What's wrong with them? Oh gosh. I must have done something wrong. Now I'm going to worry about every possible outcome of why they now hate me.