#externallocusofcontrol

Today’s prisons are filled with people who, for whatever reasons failed to develop problem-solving skills. In most cases, people ending up in prison became victims themselves, way back in the depths of childhood where a certain lifestyle began to slowly poison their ability to manage life’s problems. What lifestyle? – the reactive kind. But before we talk about the toxic effects of “reactivity,”…

Where is Your Locus of Control?

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I have the bad habit of blaming the world for my mishaps and problems. It’s easy to fall into self-pity than take responsibility. Unfortunately, I’m not the only one who does this.

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You’ve probably heard about the UCSB killer and his rampage, but his anger and thoughts aren’t unusual. From…