#ethical queer

Hey! Just wanted to let everyone know that we're leaving the verse. The community has genuinely become so outrageously toxic, which has lead us to decide that we should leave the awv. It sucks to see a small little corner of the internet that we deeply cared for become so toxic and filled with infighting. Especially after only around 3 months of actually being a decently big thing. We've personally been attacked and bullied over our boundaries, which is just ... ridiculous? I won't be naming people, but it sucks. The amount of people who said we had to accept a group of people that causes us discomfort and dysphoria is astounding, and is the primary reason we are leaving. It has been a big reason our mental health has plumetted in recent times. We don't hate this group of people we've mentioned being 'anti' towards, the only thing we wanted to make clear was that we just didn't want them to interact with my blog or posts, simple as that. It's a part of curating your online experience, which is absolutely allowed. It's baffling how many people got on my case about it, saying we were exclusionists, queerphobic, and intersexist. Which we are absolutely not anything close to that. I'm not understanding how setting boundaries equals any of those things. Yes, we could have worded a few things better, and have edited a few posts to get our points across better and in a nicer way, but other than that, there's nothing wrong with our boundaries, as far as I'm concerned. I won't act like it was only the awv attacking us, as it absolutely wasn't. It was others as well. As anti-endos we're supposed to uplift each other, encourage recovery, and respect other people's boundaries. Which, the last thing being something a LOT of you preach, yet still don't follow through with. This is genuinely a disappointing development in these corners of the internet. I would like to apologize to Miku, who created the anti-willoverse, about how it is turning out. You deserved better than this, man. I know your intentions were well when you created this community, and we're sad to see how it's ending. You're one of the few people we've retained respect for throughout this entire thing. Thank you for being a good person. - anti-willo-vi vicanthropy

We should quit the fighting and all just hold hands and dance around a campfire guys

tw for last paragraph. We've password protected our ethiqueer blog. We will only be sharing the password to few people, and only those that we trust. If you want it, ask us for the password, and we may give it. We're genuinely not in a good mental state, and we can't handle the constant stress of having people talking shit about us for feelings we cannot control. We understand that there have been trans women gay men and trans men lesbians for years, we don't care if you identify as that, we just don't feel comfortable associating our system with individuals who do, as it causes us genuine dysphoria and feelings of invalidation. That's about as deep as I'll go into that here. Our coined term still does exist. It won't cease to exist. We just can't handle it. Not right now. I truly do not understand why people are not allowed to have feelings anymore. There are real people behind the accounts you are saying horrible things about, and it sucks. I've never once harassed someone who says they're a trans man lesbian. I don't harass people in general. I avoid them the best I can. I don't know why people can't just block us if you disagree. I just don't get it. This whole situation has been far more than we bargained for, and I assume the community I adored would be more mature than this. It truly sucks. I'm stressed, I'm upset, and I'm so deeply close to doing shit I can't undo, man. I hope everyone is happy, cause damn, I sure am not. Thanks for all of the input, I guess.