#equality rant

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I have had the thought my whole life that since I have always been heavier than other girls and most men that I am somehow not a whole person or undeserving of love. And why shouldn't I? The media confirmed it throughout my childhood and only recently has this begun to change. I was going through my journal today and found an entry from when I was 17 about what I wanted in a guy. It listed a bunch of characteristics that basically added up to Sam Winchester combined with Fox Mulder but the next entry was titled "how do I need to change to attract this person?" Now this in itself isn't bad. Most of the criteria were good like, be more compassionate, don't emasculate every man before they have a chance to be nice to you, pray more, accept accountability, try being more outspoken, etc. However, right at the top of the list was "LOOSE WEIGHT" Looking back on it after three years and acting school later I hurt for myself. I used to define my worth by my weight. Just because I'm over 250 with curves and large breasts doesn't mean I'm unloveable. It doesn't make me less of a woman or more of a woman for that matter. We all deserve love but not all of us get told this. We get told from the time we can play with barbies that skinny hourglass figures with thighs that don't touch are desirable and the winners of most love stories. We see women we relate to being used as comedy relief or made fun of simply because they are LIKE US. Rebel Wilson may be a bad ass and wonderful confident woman but her breakout character's name was FAT AMY. I laughed at the movie, but afterwards I had this horrible feeling when I realized that she was only there for comedy relief. My teachers at film acting school don't know what to cast me as because I have the ability to play all these potent characters but none are written for plus size women. WE ARE NOT LESS WE ARE NOT DISEASED WE DESERVE SOME COMPELLING, WELL ROUNDED, SEXY AS HELL CHARACTERS WRITTEN FOR US WE ARE DESERVING OF LOVE AND WE SURE AS HELL NEED SOMEONE TO START TELLING YOUNG GIRLS THIS TOO

Why is being cis gendered so bad? Is there something wrong with being happy with your gender? Being trans is perfectly fine, its okay to not like the gender you were born with. With this being said, its okay to also like the gender you were born with too. I don't get why people have to be such dicks to each other based on how they feel about their gender. And calling someone a "cis gendered fuck" is not a valid insult because, as I stated before, it's okay to like the gender you were born with. Can't we all just get along instead of giving all this hate to each other? Trans = valid Cis = valid I don't know why this is so hard to comprehend. //////aaaaa I'm probably going to get so much hate because I want to stop seeing all the hate toward trans and cis people hhh before its even stated, I know that some cis people are general dicks. I know this. In my opinion, i have no respect for them. but the cis people who aren't get most of the hate, as I have seen, just because they get one little thing wrong. *cries*

if anyone believes that we’re all human fucking beings and we’re all different and should acknowledge that, and that gender, race, sexuality, culture, religion shouldn’t be something that someone gets hated for, i agree so fucking much with the person

Regardless of the fact that I’m a hetero girl, I really wish that people who post things with good intentions saying “to all the girls who don’t feel loved, to all the girls who think they’re ugly…. (Ect)” I wish they’d say ‘people’ because boys and other genders (I’m not good at remembering all the gender titles; I only know boy, girl, gender fluid, gender neutral {he/she/they})dont all feel loved, or beautiful. Everyone deserves to know there's someone there for them.