#elrambles

It’s such a good balance to be successful on your own and then be spoiled & cared for by your partner as well. One doesn’t exclude the other, don’t let hateful poorly-minded individuals stray you from wanting it all. We are modern women, we can and we should have it all.

After this year I have a new way of vetting any new potential friends and that is to ask them what they think about Carrie from SATC

Just a reminder that you can’t have balance if you don’t indulge yourself a little bit, or lose track for a while. Balance requires the loss of stability to come forward. It’s necessary, it’s normal, you can’t be eating healthy every single day or outperforming yourself every day at work. You’re a human, not a robot. Robots can only do that; perform tasks. You’re made to adapt and evolve! And that won’t happen by acting like a robot, but by listening to your real body and your heart’s needs. Eat more, sleep less, let yourself fuck up a little, then come back and bring your game to the next level. You’ll be ok baby.

You can explain, and be patient, and ask for more, but ultimately there’s so much trying you can do before all the joy is sucked out of your needs. At some point you’ve got to get up and find what you seek elsewhere, and forget the investment of time and effort you’ve put in a person or situation. The point is the result, why continue to pour into a cup that’s leaking from the sides? Hasn’t it been enough time wasted on it? There’s really more to lose than what you’ve invested, if you stay. Remember that.

Saturdays are for morning pilates, a healthy breakfast at home, hair salon, shopping, brunch w the girls, a hot bath, painting. That’s it

my vision board for February just be like. Graduation. Pilates (reformer). 5k in savings. Cuddling on a plane. Broth.

I wish people would protect their authenticity more