Last year I sent you an ask saying how I was grateful that you share snippets of your life with us because it helped me see through the bs of most female dating coaches and showed me what a real, actual loving relationship can look like (since I unfortunately had no examples of it in real life, relationships have always been tough for women in my family). Because of it I reevaluated my priorities and decided to give a chance to a relationship I wouldn't have otherwise.
Well, I'm here to tell you that we've just celebrated our first anniversary! It has been such a happy and loving relationship, and he truly is the most understanding, caring man I've ever met. He's my biggest fan and supporter. I know this relationship is going well and strong due to my and his efforts, but without seeing your example of what a healthy relationship can look like perhaps I wouldn't have reevaluated what really matters to me and might have passed on the opportunity to build something as beautiful as I've had with him this last year. So thank you very much for that!
Oh, this is the best news. I'm absolutely delighted for you. Honesty and transparency, and a willingness for you to open your arms to that vulnerability, emotionally and otherwise, is genuinely key. I swear it.
☝️ whenever one of you sends me an Advice Ask (how did this happen? I didn't mean for this to happen but okay then) this is how I arrive.
I wish you all the best. I really do. Updates not only welcomed, but encouraged.