aphobia
-being told you’ll one day figure it outÂ
- being told you’re brokenÂ
 - constantly asked if you love your parents/friendsÂ
 - forcing you into romantic/sexual environments when you show uncomfortableness
 - “you’re too young to know”
 - “you’ll like it when you try”
- “are you sure you’re not just ill/sick?”Â
- “i’m celibate too!!” (this could be very harmful since it is participating in the erasure of ace identities)Â
 - “how can you not fall in love?”
 - “i can change you”Â
- “aro/ace identities are caused by trauma”
-saying someone isn’t ace for being cupio/positive 4 sex/romanceÂ
 -“You just haven’t met the right person”Â
-“ace/aro are not queer” -“ace/aro arent discriminated against “Â
-“ace/aro isn’t LGBTQ+”Â
-“are you sureeeee you’re asexual?/aromantic?”Â
- “i think you’re confused”
- being called heartlessÂ
