ok, as lovely as it sounds to have a perfect tooth-rotting sweet life with our traumatized tv man
conflicts are also a thing. disagreement and arguments could happen.
and it WILL get messy. If proper communication isn't being practiced between you both.
emotions are one hell of a thing.
stabs right into old wounds, causes lash outs; provokes shutdowns.
guilt, shame, insecurities, all that jazz.
threatening tones, aggression and accusations being thrown without ever really meaning it.
all was never truly done in malice, but desperation.
a reflex to defend one's battered heart.
and it feels like danger. It could feel like the end of the world, life on the line. even though it really isn't.
can you handle it? no matter how hard it feels like?
work through this together, with him.
talk it out properly before it blows both of you up.
set up boundaries, speak up and communicate, unlearn bad habits/behavior, mutual acceptance, and understanding.
hand in hand, navigate through the pain and fear, towards peace.
never turn away from each other, never abandon, never leave one another hurt.
the healing arc isn't always sunshine and rainbows. Are you ready?