#drdewit

GOOD THING OR BAD THING?⠀ ⠀ What tempts you?⠀ ⠀ - drugs?⠀ - sex?⠀ - food?⠀ - social media⠀ - netflix⠀ ⠀ What is your passion or poison?⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #temptation #entertainme #goodorbad https://www.instagram.com/p/BmyOHFdgwYh/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=11r4bhmtgbmjm

ARE YOU LOUD OR QUIET?⠀ ⠀ Do you talk? ⠀ Give directions?⠀ Talk dirty?⠀ ⠀ Are your orgasm loud or quiet?⠀ ⠀ Have you ever had noise complaints?................. I have ;)⠀ ⠀ Was this wonderful Filipino Catholic woman who was the building manager called me up and was so awkward she didn't want to say the word sex.⠀ ⠀ She said their were complaints and if I had heard anything myself. lol⠀ ⠀ I assured her if I heard anything I would let her know right away. HAAAAAAAAA!⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #screams #loud #quiet https://www.instagram.com/p/Bms6S_8gbAZ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=edrfte27zk5v

IS DIGITAL LOVE LEGIT?⠀ ⠀ I remember years ago I was MCing a wedding (I have done many) and the bride and groom had met on line. They specifically requested that I did not mention that.⠀ ⠀ Now, it is almost the exception that people don't meet online.⠀ ⠀ Are their drawbacks or benefits? Does it matter what type of relationship you are looking for?⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #digitallove #doubletap #newagelove https://www.instagram.com/p/Bmi4VdPgrAf/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1o7t1v24137ru

FOMO⠀ ⠀ Rarely if ever is someone having amazing sex all the time. Although it can appear that way.⠀ ⠀ Through your life there will be ebbs and flows, ups and downs. Trust in yourself that the best is yet to come.⠀ ⠀ And if you stuck or struggle reach out and talk to someone. Live a sex live by design rather than one by resign. (not sure if that is proper grammar, but it rhymes!)⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #vacation #amazingsex #allofthetime https://www.instagram.com/p/BmgMcfuA5XD/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=12z5fx3hm8qzk

WHAT IS YOUR LOVE MAKING JAM?⠀ ⠀ Music can do much to set the mood, communicate what you want.⠀ ⠀ I am always surprised when I take the time to listen to lyrics how sexual they are.⠀ ⠀ What is your favourite song or type of music to get down to?⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #music #slowjams #getyourfreakon https://www.instagram.com/p/Bmeo7c_AQkM/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=mcgb0gvdk4g7

WHAT YOU WANT MATTERS!⠀ ⠀ Your needs and wants are legit.⠀ ⠀ Do not give up if you haven't found a partner or your partner is not open to exploring what you are interested in.⠀ ⠀ Have conversations. Set out a clear plan to have what you want. Reach out and talk to an expert.⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #toolegit #toolegittoquit #needsandwants https://www.instagram.com/p/BmdmrHkgzAP/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=mxptkcx2eapp

HUMILITY AS AN ACCESS TO GROWTH⠀ ⠀ At different times in my life I have been at what I like to think of as the top of my game.⠀ ⠀ The reality is that I am at the bottom of another challenge.⠀ ⠀ Recently been taking on my fitness @f45libertyvillage.⠀ ⠀ Nothing like having women half your size outlast and out lift you to keep me humble and open to growing.⠀ ⠀ Similarly when it comes to sex coming at it with an open mind, not with all the answers but with all the questions on how you can learn and grow with a partner will make you a great lover.⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #f45 #humble #humility

COMMUNICATION IS LUBRICATION!⠀ ⠀ To actually allow someone to see you for who you are and accept you is one of the most powerful bonding experiences possible.⠀ ⠀ The catch here is most of us are too afraid to show someone who we really are because we see ourselves as flawed and inadequate.⠀ ⠀ It has been my experience that we all (myself included) have things we are not proud of that we hang onto and that prevents us from connecting.⠀ ⠀ Take a risk share about that big elephant in the room...... Cause guess what, they feel the weight too!⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #sextherapist #sexspeaker #drdewit #justdewit #sexologist #selfcaretips #youareabadass #selfloveclub #beyourbestself #sexcoach #youreworthit #goodvibesalways #selfcaretips #problemsolved #adultingishard #sexed #speaker #professionalspeaker #isavesexlives #communication #vulnerability #sharing