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I've noticed I don't get on tumblr as much as I once did, but know I am still around. I do check it at least every other day or so to see what everyone is up to. After Krysla wrote that long ol post of lies about what's going on with Jude, I decided to lay low for a bit because I didn't care to have all the clueless anons calling me names and such when they have no clue about what's actually going on. Here we are a year later and the orders are now final. She doesn't have custody, just visitation. I'm the one that does the communication with her because my work schedule allows me to be the one to meet her where as Joseph's doesn't plus he is a full time student. I'm current in AZ visiting family for two weeks and things are already having to be rearranged due to Joseph's work schedule and the fact we aren't going to tell Krysla where Joseph's mother lives. She is the daycare because she runs a licensed in home day care. But we know it's not safe for Krysla to know where she lives so we aren't telling her. Therefore she can't pick Jude up there and she has to wait for Joseph to get off work and get Jude ready for visits. Honestly nothing has changed. She is behind on child support, has no car and moved back in with her dad. It is what it is. She talks so much shit about me, yet I'm the one raising and taking care of Jude. It doesn't hurt my feelings because I know how things really are. Anyways, that's a glimpse of where we are at. I've missed all of you. Don't be strangers. ❤️

For all of you that were talking shit about me on @dramamoms a few months back, you can shove it! We had mediation yesterday and Krysla has officially lost custody for good. The orders are being finalized. For the last 9 months her visitation has been supervised. Let me give you a little preface before I tell you the new arrangement. This way, you'll know everything I said was true about the kind of parent she is. On or around November 1st she started dating a guy that lives in Colorado. She gave up 8 hours of visitation the Saturday before thanksgiving so she could go visit this guy. She asked to come see Jude and we agreed. She asked for 2 hours then left 30 minutes early. She then proceeded to tell me the next weekend that she wanted to move to Colorado. Mind you that where she wanted to go is 8-10 hours away. I asked her how visitation would work and she said "I guess a bunch of skype dates". She wanted to move up until this past weekend when they broke up. Now she is trying to play like her time with Jude is so important to her even though a week ago she wanted to move away knowing she wouldn't be able to take him. I have all the texts and everything to prove it. She was already over $1500 behind in child support. The first offer she sent us in mediation was including that she not have to pay child support. Which is ridiculous because we gave her over $300 a month when we had him half the time. We waived the $1500 and made it to where she won't have another payment due until April 1st. Then every month after that. With our agreement she will eventually have the extended standard possession agreement. But that won't be the case until the next school year starts. Until then she will progressively get more time. She is required to pick him up and drop him off. Jude still calls me mom because he loves me like I'm his mom. Last Saturday when I picked him up from mediation he said to me "I can't call her Krysla because she told me no. I have to call her mom, but I want to call you mom. You're my mom, too" I told him that there is nothing wrong with calling us both mom. So, it's her trying to make him feel guilty. When she should just let him decide. All in all, everything is exactly like I told you guys.