(cont.) aros or aces felt the same way? some times i just feel like my whole being “queer” is fake and i’m actually het and that makes me panic even though it’s kinda irrational, but i feel bad? idk how to put it but, how do i get comfortable with an ID?

It’s always really tough to figure out what our identification is, mainly because aro and ace spec identities are feelings not advertised a lot in the media and represented. It’s also tough in general because identifying as something other than straight takes conscious thought and needing to figure it all out.

I think what helps getting used to an ID is reading about it and talking about it, but that’s from my own personal experience (that’s how I got used to the idea of identifying as aromantic tbh). But regardless of your identification, you’re not fake for feeling this way. You’re not fake for identifying in any way. At all. Even if your identification is for a brief period of time, it’s still valid. Identities are fluid, and its existence as such does not invalidate you for what and how you feel.

tagged by megan they suck why am i doing this at one in the morning

1. Write your name in song titles

Ima try and aim for an all big bang referenced one here we go E - Ego - Big Bang

M - Monster - Big Bang

I - If You - Big Bang

L - Loser - Big Bang

Y - You Do - G-Dragon  

thats good enough

2. Why did you choose your URL? meg chose it for me and i needed a big bang url just bc

3. What’s your middle name? johanne

4. If you could be a fictional/fairy tale being, what would you be? anime nipples

5. Favourite colour? blue bc DUCK EGG PPL

6. Favourite song? just right by got7 is quality oooOOOOooOOOoooOOOo

7. Top 4 fandoms? bts,big bang,anime,and teen wolf is back so im jumping on that shitty bandwagon again save me

8. Why do you enjoy tumblr? tumblr literally introduced me to kpop and anime and other fandoms without which i would probably not know existed,tbh im not sure if im grateful for that.

On a non sarcastic note tumblr has introduced me to some great pple qai lookin at u

9. Tagging: esme,qai,mart, 

well it ain’t me

house: either ravenclaw or hufflepuff 

favorite class: potions

pet: cat 

your patronus: hydra bc hail hydra

house points:

 url:  100/100

icon: 90/100

theme 80/100

posts: 85/100

exam results (overall): DREADFUL | POOR | ACCEPTABLE | EXCEEDS EXPECTATIONS | OUTSTANDING

do I send you owls? (am I following you): yes | no sorry | always | I am now

random fact (about you as a student): this one time, you got a remembrall for christmas and you thought it was stupid. so now you use it as a play toy for your cat.

donnahnoble: love the theme it’s so simplistic and cool and wooowwwwww also fab posts +f

pottersir: the theme is so organised and i wish i had that kind of organisation skill also a+ posts