#dj jas

You blocked, and that’s fine. I’m not interacting. But I’m not about to be fucking silent about this either, because THIS IS HARMFUL TOO. WHAT THE FUCK?!

And now I’ll zoom in for anyone asking How:

Having NPD doesn’t give you the right to gaslight abuse survivors. This is literally what I mean when I tell y’all that you are telling us what we went through doesn’t exist. Because that is exactly what you’re doing right here. “Just using a word in a clinical setting,” is YOUR assumption of one example I gave. Where btw I specifically stated that there are books on this term by people who research it- Guess whaaattt? FUCKING CLINICALLY!!

Calling me the harmful enemy and blocking me doesn’t erase that from existing, and it doesn’t erase the harm your own words will cause to abuse survivors if you continue to act like this form of abuse doesn’t exist.

Because IT DOES FUCKING EXIST!! It’s literally the thing y’all want us to call COMPLEX ABUSE. That’s what it fucking is. It’s the same exact set of abuse behaviors from almost ALL types of abuse. So for one, telling people it doesn’t is just as harmful to survivors, and for two, if you just act like it doesn’t exist anymore, then where the fuck was all that harm in the first place? You’ll end up only minimizing and trivializing the exact fucking thing you want acknowledged by changing the term’s name!

You’re genuinely only hurting us both. None of this response is helpful. Calling the form of abuse I continue to survive “Just abuse,” isn’t fucking helpful either. Because it’s not. “Just abuse.” It’s complex abuse. That’s the whole fucking point of there being a term that we’re trying to change the name of in the first place.

And most importantly: Telling me the form of abuse I go through isn’t real, doesn’t fucking make the word we already have to type in to get our treatment shit to pull up just magically not exist yeah? So stop this already. It isn’t the way we solve this fucking issue.

Like, the same ones who cross tag their bitter and hateful bullshit to ~kuku at endos~ or what the fuck ever are out here being like

“Oh I’m gonna get hate and death threats for this, but I’m gonna post it anyway ✌🏻😔 I’m so brave standing up for the medical dissociation theories that the evil endos are trying to destroy~”

Nobody thinks syscourse is exactly the same thing as trans discourse. It’s fucking ridiculous to assume that’s what comparing the two means. In fact that’s the whole damn point!!

Just in case y’all forgot, a comparison is between different things. Finding the similarities in different things is the whole shebang lmao!!

We all know they’res different things, so saying “uhm don’t compare these things they’re not the same,” doesn’t mean shit. Useless.

🌌 anon says:

"They just want to be special" "They just want to be different"

I'm fairly certain I have heard people saying similar things about trans people, non-binary people, hell even gay people.

Arguing that calling an entire group of people something isn't bigotry is ridiculous. This feels the same as when I heard someone in high school say "native Americans are savages".

And it is going to be a circle too. "Well this is different because...." No, it really isn't. It does not matter your feelings on it, you are being a bigot. You are acting as though you are superior than a group of people.

Evaluate your behavior before you fall further. You may think you're "protecting" people but you aren't. Repressed memories are a thing, not being able to remember trauma is a thing, not having access to help that can uncover that the trauma exists is a thing.

~🌌

Both really!! As in you will NOT be told you are faking or anything like that here if you share your own info and or experiences.

~🌌

I understand this. There’s actually a bigger problem too because like ppl will do that shit to you and be like “This isn’t how [subjective system experiences that even if can be considered symptoms will present differently for different brains] works!!!” and it’s like who made you the grand master of brain experiences?! Lmaoooo

But yeah there’s a lot to be weary about. I’m just not and brain said it’s my turn with the hands so 🤗

And also I just learned that if you don’t wish to tell other systems what they can and can’t be some of these people will just dismiss you entirely and call you an endo even if you’re not one. So there’s that…