#dissomuse

"omg you have littles? they must LOVE being babied!" "omg you have a persecutor? they must be very dangerous and evil..." "omg you're a protector? you must-"

*bashes your head with a metal pipe* shut the hell up

DISSOMUSE OUT!

"But anti-endos gatekeep terms!"

endogenics call trauma survivors "Traumascums"

"anti-endos are mean!"

endogenics call trauma survivors "Traumascums"

"anti-endos can't properly define us!"

endogenics call trauma survivors "Traumascums"

"anti-endos are apathetic!"

endogenics call trauma survivors "Traumascums"

you shouldn't have to make up a slur to defend your lived experience. now remind me, what slur have anti-endos invented against endogenics?

I so badly need someone to make a simply plural app that isn't pro endo because the amount of endogenics barking "UR ANTI ENDO BUT USE PK AND SP!!" is pissing me off so bad.

no shit im using the only app made for systems and available in my country. also why are you suddenly trying to gatekeep SP when some people who arent systems or plural at all are also using it?

SP is genuinely a good tracking app bruhv let me use it :withering rose:

DISSOMUSE OUT!

Say it with me everybody!

Hearing voices in your head is not OSDDID

Having mood-swings in your identity is not OSDDID

Feeling like fictional characters is not OSDDID

Having multiple/subpersonalities is not OSDDID

Can we PLEASE talk about how people (I don't want to name them specifically but especially Endogenics) have just dumbed down system-inducing dissociative disorders into just alter disorders? hell, most of the community only focuses on your alters, only recently have I seen (a positively good amount of) people actually adress the dissociation parts of systemhood.

it's always "whats your name and identity?" "our __ fictive" "alter intros" "new splits" "front" "co-front" and never the reason why it's called a DISORDER.

Dissomuse out!

Wanna know something that shouldn't piss me off, but still does? People who don't want tonetags used on them. Especially when their reasoning is "It makes me feel stupid".

this is a harmless tool used to help ANYONE -- not just ND people -- communicate with others online. No ttngs peopl usually also don't use tonetags themselves which is just incredibly frustrating.

I also DO need to use tonetags besides having them used on me, I have incredibly awful anxiety about socializing and I need to make sure my messages come across the right way, tone tags help a lot more than feverishly typing "not in a __ way!" after every message.

DISSOMUSE OUT!

"what do you mean by endogenics having 100 different definitions?" weird that they're in denial but nonetheless I explain

"it's either: they dont have did, or they have did, they are a system, they dont claim to be a system, they can XXX, or they cant XXX"

very clearly contradictory definitons of endogenic systems

"they literally don't contradict eachother"