#discussion threads

Okay so discussion, I've always been a pretty skinny and low weight person with a flat chest, I am currently at a healthy weight but I still look skinny with a little bit of stomach, I have always been insecure about my skinny figure (other than my flat chest cause it doesn't bother me cause I'm trans) but feel bad about it bc some people would literally kill to have my body, no I don't want to be 'fat' I just wanted people to stop body shaming me for being so skinny. This bothered me to the point where some lyrics in songs that are supposed to help people who are insecure about being chubby which is totally fine but it makes me feel selfish because some lyrics in those songs sound like they are targeting skinny people and talking bad on them.

And then whenever chubby people are body shamed most people immediately comes to their side and try to comfort them but whenever a skinny person gets body shamed nobody cares and some even join in on it.

Ex. Okay so whenever my sister and I argue I have before called her chubby and before you call me an asshole it was not to offend her and I assume she knows I'm not serious but the main reason I did this is because all of my life my family has called me skinny and joked about it to the point where it has made me cry I try to laugh about it but it genuinely makes me insecure and nobody cares whenever someone tries to make jokes about my body but as soon as I tried to call my sister chubby after she called me skinny and years of my family making fun of me for being skinny she immediately came to defend my sister saying she's not fat and such normally I would agree but their jokes have made me insecure