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Well hello gorgeous, the sun is poppin in these Fresno streets  . I have been finding myself more intune about the things that are truly important to me. The truth is everything is based on the intentions on what I would like to achieve. Now the Intention can work both ways . If your focus is feeding negative energy then that is what you will receive.But, if your intention is based on the Good then you will always double your return.

What are the things you are currently giving power to? And how does it serve you ? 

  We live in a time where everyone wants to be famous for great work , but no one wants to work .How we evolve to that ideal is a question within it self . As we are beginning second quarter of a new year , I wanted to give you some insight on how #beingintential can serve you . 

What Do you want to achieve? 

So so easy right? This is the hardest part of the journey , knowing the why . I am sure you heard me say this over and over again ... But the WHY must be bigger than yourself. Take some time and think about what it is you really want to achieve and do everything in your power to make it happen . 

Set the Goal

Girl do you know how many goals I set for myself on a daily basis. Make sure the goal is realistic . In my mind I am Superwoman. But in real life I am a Rockmom who is in school and works and take care of my youngin while investing in me . Even if the goal something as small as reading for 10 minutes a day it is still a goal.

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   “ The only thing that I see that is distinctly different about me is, I am not afraid to die on a treadmill. You might have more talent than me, you might be smarter than me. But if we get on the treadmill together, there’s two things. You are getting off first. Or I am going to die. It’s that simple.”  – Will Smith

 Do the work   

Yes , being intentional requires doing the work that will help you align your puzzle together . If you want to work with a certain company start creating content that is going to allow you to get there attention. Put thought and effort into your work. 

When I was younger I made it my business to make sure everyone liked me.  I always displayed my characteristics of being loyal and dependable. Even when I did not get the same results that I was investing. I use to think they will have to see who I am one day . Because I was very naive in my friendships I would keep people around who did not deserve a front seat to this show .

 It doesn’t matter who you are, where you come from. The ability to triumph begins with you – always.-Oprah Winfrey 

  Value is something that we all have inside of us . It something that you cannot put a price On.Value is something that you must protect at all cost . What I have noticed is we have a tendency of under valuing ourself in hopes that we don’t intimidate others . 

Here are a few ways to determine your value . 

Take what you do serious  

No one is ging  to value you until you VALUE YOU . We set the tone and expectations to how other people treat and preceive us . If you only pour into yourself part time you are going to get part time results . Everything you do let it mean something every-time . When I made the promise to myself that I would really give this a shoot my whole world Change . What if you actually devoted a whole year to doing more of what you love .

   Understand  your Currency 

 Currency:something that is used as a medium of exchange; 

Know when and how to maximize your exchanges. Think about the things that you are an expert at and how you can leverage . Nobody can determine your value but you. Your currency brings impact and change to people’s lives. 

   "We need to reshape our own perception of how we view ourselves. We have to step up as women and take the lead."—Beyoncé

  Keep perfecting your craft  

Your value is as good as the investment. As an expert you always be a student first. Never stop learning. The more you stay on top of your craft the more value you can bring to the people around you . 

Hey February is that you babe ? Happy Monday , I missed you so much . I have been absent due to realigning who I am and what is truly driving my purpose. No matter what is going on around you , please understand who you are and what you are meant to be will always find their way if you are paying attention.

if I can be truly honest with you these last couple of months has been a whirlwind of highs and lows . While finding a balance in motherhood to loving myself , going after my degrees for a hole and being there for the people who need me . 

I found myself slipping away while giving things that has to means to serve me get my attention. Girl can we be real tho . 

   “Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough.”-Oprah Winfrey 

During my Discovery I realized as women we do not give ourself full permission to be who we are meant to be . Myself included it’s like we tell ourself naw that’s too big .I want to share a few ways to over come. 

SET THE INTENTIONS 

What do you want ? A lot of times we can be scared to say out loud what it is that we really want. Once you are comfortable with saying yes to yourself . Create the plan on how you are going to make it happen. This could look like taking every Monday to plan out your game plan . The more clear you are about the goal the more intentional you will be .

   Use what you are Good at.. 

let me be the first to say ... babe you are the magic sauce . I don’t care if 10 people are around you there is no one that can make it like you . If you are good at organizing then do that . If you have a nack with numbers then do that . If you love cooking pumpkin pie then baby do that . The things that you are good at you will do without thinking about and the love will overflow. 

  Enjoy the Experience  

Everyone who get it , and that’s okay . It wasn’t until “I”  decided what was going to be okay for me. In order to get everything from the things you are seeking you have to be open to the experience. Learn as much as you can while you are growing.

These last few months has been a true learning experience to say the least. I would find myself in between feeling like I can take on the world in one day, to feeling like I was defeated because I could not get to everything that I had on my list . I am going to keep is Allllllllll the way real . I was burning both ends at the same time. 

 “Give Yourself Grace “

  I started to think about all the things I wanted to do verse the things I made commitment to. During that exercise I learned I have more things that I am committed to that is not lining up with goals I have set for myself . I am extremely passionate of helping others and being there but I had to learn new ways to support them. 

what I am learning is that it is okay to choose your goals and still support the best way YOU CAN. 

“You won’t always be a priority to others. And that’s why you have to be a priority to yourself. And be your own support system. Your needs matter. Start meeting them. Don’t wait on others to choose you. Choose yourself TODAY!- Marcandangel

  I found myself struggling to find some type of balance . For a while I was still struggling because I would squeeze it in when I should have simply declined if my plate was already full. I am still finding myself with Grace and learning not to be so hard on myself. I am a Avid believer of taking inventory on what is happening in my life. I want to share a few ways I have started to give myself grace .

SAY NO 

sounds so easy right ? This was the hardest practice I had to adopt.  During a therapy session my therapist asked me Which one would come First ? My goals or making people happy. You have to be willing to say no to things that are not helping you get closer to your goals. If your plate is full simply say “Thank you for inviting me , I am sorry I can not make it at this time.” The Grace if giving yourself the time to achieve what you have in mind .

  Choose You  

If I told you that everything you will ever need starts with you would you believe me ? When you see Yourself as a priority, this sets the tone to how everyone else is going to treat and perceive you . This also send signals that your value is not to be played with. Choosing you can happen in many forms such as investing in your health, education, business or anything that is important to you . 

  Take Inventory  

Inorder to understand where you stand you must first understand where you are . When you take inventory this also allows you to be accountable. I do inventory very often because my progress is important to me . Every so often see what is working or not working and adjust accordingly. Most importantly be easy on yourself your Doing a phenomenal job .

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