interestingly i don't see a lot of positivity for devotees. even by otherwise pro kink people. i suppose it is pretty common to assume devotee=an abled person that gets horny for disrespecting cripples.
if youre attracted to someone because theyre disabled: thats okay!
its okay to factor kink into your reasons for being attracted to someone. its ok to prioritize kink in a relationship.
being a devotee doesnt inherently mean you devalue disabled people and only want to fuck them because you think their consent doesnt matter.
the kink doesnt determine the morals, your actions do.
you wanna be devoted to us and take care of us sexually because we're in pain and cant do much?
okay, cool! will you cook dinner and sweep the floor when we cant? what if its all the time? what if we can never do chores again?
will you call us beautiful when we change out our medical devices attached to our bodies? will you kiss all of the marks and welts that they leave behind?
will you help us fix our mobility aids?
will you clean us? every part of us? yes, even that part.
will you be okay with when we cant have sex because of our disabilities? what if its never again?
you will? well, then i think youre doing just fine.
