This is more of a reminder post than anything, because I feel it’s urgent to make sure we don’t forget the actions this person took against all of us:
tw for racism, abuse, manipulation, and some slurs
The Reason I unfollowed Cath is because she is a racist.
The reason we made this callout for Cath, is because she ASSUMED that I was forced to unfollow her, instead of believing that I am a human being that is able to make decisions for myself, and started a horrifically incorrect and disgustingly manipulative smear campaign against my best friend.
She targeted my friend, deciding to blame my friend for things they did not do, once again ASSUMING that my friend had somehow forced me to unfollow them, and hurt them so horrifically that I could never forgive Cath for the rest of her fucking life.
Cath hurt multiple people, but nobody so thoroughly as my own best friend, who has been with me through so much. I hate Cath because they are racist, and I hate myself for feeling there was once a time where I excused it because I thought Cath was not a monster. I thought very incorrectly. I hate them so much more now that I know the depths of how monstrous they are willing to be.
Know that my end goal is not to forgive them. I will never forgive them. If they would actually apologize for the horrible things they did, and promise not to do it again, that would be a start, because it would be owning up to their actions. That is not my end goal. Cath will never recognize the horrible things they did, and continues to spread misinformation and target and hurt people to this day, they are a racist and a manipulator, and they will not change. That is the danger I am worried others will face.
My end goal is for everyone to know what Cath is really like, so that they aren’t also hurt by her, so they can be saved from this kind of racism, abuse, and manipulation.
I hate Cath, I hate everything I put up with for Cath. I hate that they used me, pretending they cared about me when they actually just wanted me to write all their disgusting jack off fantasies with no substance, and never gave the time of day for what I wanted out of our friendship. I hate that they hurt my best friend, the friend I care about more than anything in this world, and that they tried to use them as a way to get me back. I am not an object, but Cath will make you feel like one, Cath will demean you for your race, Cath will manipulate the people around you, Cath will slander your best friends, and Cath will continue to pretend that I was their friend.
That was what I thought.
I know better now.
Please make sure you know better too.
Here is the Document Containing all the Hateful, Racist, Disgusting, Manipulative things that Cath did to me and my Best Friend. Know that this link is a summary of what happened, and does not cover everything Cath has done to us.
